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Im not having a good time.

Me having a good time requires me to be 'living in the moment'. If I am dealing with myself well, I can deal with the hardest of circumstance. If I am not dealing with myself well even fair weather circumstances become very hard work.
It requires effort to live in the moment, something I am not always willing to put in!

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I'm stuck.

i dont deal well with stress or change. it is hard because i cant keep letting my comfort zone get smaller and smaller or else i will drive my self crazy living alone in my house. i belong to a fellowship (AA) which really is good for me as it gets me out of my house in a community of people who are just as messy as me. i get to hear ideas outside of my own thinking that is not directed straight at me so often it is easier to hear. Any chance you could join a self help group or something similar ?

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