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Relationship Rant

I am fuming as my fiance who moved in with me at the end of March this year, went on holiday yesterday all by himself.

We were supposed to go together last week, and my daughter was to join us. But he said he didn't want to go. Then when I cancelled the whole thing, he went all by himself anyway.

I am so angry with him, because this would have been my first holiday since 2011, and on the top of it I'd have met my friends and family for the first time since then also.

Just a few days before we were to leave, I was told that my car needs expensive repairs. When I had to cancel my holiday, I at least thought we would have money to sort my car out as I depend on it for my work. But because he left, we will lose his two week wages on the top of his travel expenses, so all the money which we could have spent on my car's repair, went there.

I am not able to think straight now, but am I overreacting when I feel that I no longer want him back? I can lose everything if my car breaks down while he is away, and I won't be able to go to work.

Before he left, I told him that if I could afford it, I wouldn't want him back here.

He moved to live with me from another country. When he moved, we didn't know if he would ever have a job because he doesn't speak the language. So, I was the one earning money, always gone from home - after two and a half weeks since he moved in, he got mad and said he wanted to go back to live with his family. He asked if I would take him back later, but because I said no, he decided to stay.

Some weird way after 5 weeks being here, he got a full time job. We barely saw each other as he works mornings/early afternoons, and I work till late evenings.

I'm going out of my mind here now. If I didn't consider money, I am happier now when he is not here. I would miss 'the good time' which we barely had together, but I would survive that. It is early days until he is due to return in two weeks, and I told him I didn't want us to communicate at all while he is gone; but am I overreacting by wanting him gone? :(((( He left in my place only his work clothing, so he doesn't need to return here to get any of his things..

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It sounds to me as if you've answered your own question!

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This doesn't sound like a loving relationship, nor does it sound like it has a future.

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I agree with the previous posters.

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Thanks, guys. It has been a difficult and rollercoaster week..

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