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Yea he was my dad.

Yea.he loved me. Yea he put food on the table.
Its a mind funck when you twist this with mental abuse and you spend the rest of your life trying to recover..

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You can love someone and not like them.

Part of you can also love that person and simultaneously hate them.

Life isn’t black/white. It’s not as simple as that. Focus on recovery and when there is negativity, try to distance yourself from it. That’s all you can do.

Just remember that it’s ok for you to love your father for the things he provided for you and the time he spent with you and also hate him for the bad things he did to you.

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It's hard to find a good male role model. Don't wait for one to come along - go find one and start living life.

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I am my own role model

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