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The Swansong.

I think he might still be there even though it says he's offline.

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The Swansong.

I'm trying to get some others to come too. Please hang in there

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The Swansong.

Have u ever posted asking for support on the mental health groups?
Or only ever helped others?

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The Swansong.

See there are others who feel afraid to seek help too. And when they see you doing it like this, maybe one day it will give them the courage to do the same, and seek support.

When people see it is safe for that person to speak up, they get courage to do same

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The Swansong.

Legion wrote:

Jetmoo wrote:
Have u tried joining mental health support groups?

There is a fb closed group I am in for mental health. It might be helpful to you as there are people around all the time

Been part of so many "support" groups i've honestly lost count. I spent as much as i can helping them yet again feeling like a burden when i need help myself.

There is nothing wrong with seeking help. This post is your way of seeking help and I think u are sooo brave for doing it.

It takes real courage to do that especially with how you feel in order to do it.

U overcome a big obstacle when u ask for help. U could give yourself more credit and a pat on the back

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The Swansong.

Social expectations of being being a man is really silly.

They think it's soft for a man to cry but it's not true. It's social more acceptable for a man to show anger than cry. And more acceptable for fora female to cry than get angry.

But I can tell u that i get both. All emotions are valid. When the anger is out the tears fall. And when they have finished sometimes we can feel numb and not cry for a very long time.

Eventually it can feel like there's no point in crying. It won't fix anything right?

But it's wrong. It's OK to cry. U cried when u were anything baby and it was OK then so it's OK now.

We are all small children inside of us. We all hurt anything tell nd get scared anything tell nd nd sometimes we don't know what to do and seek comfort from others. Even as adults we don't have all the answers. We r vulnerable like like a child.


I'm a sorry for what happened between you and your partner but I think you were both struggling both at the same time and I really don't think either of you could have been responsible for your behaviours back then.

And I'm sorry about your accident

I'm sorry for your pain inside

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The Swansong.

Have u tried joining mental health support groups?

There is a fb closed group I am in for mental health. It might be helpful to you as there are people around all the time

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The Swansong.

When I say what I'm going through, I don't want it to come across like I'm comparing who has it harder. Cos that sort it thing is silly. Everyone's feelings and struggles are valid. Feelings are important and so are yours.

But when I share my experiences, I just want u to know that u r not alone

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The Swansong.

It doesn't matter what the nation thinks.

Norms of society are often soo backwards. I don't even want to follow societies norms. Social norms can promote hurting others.

I'm much rather be an outcast then join in with them

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The Swansong.

Someone who doesn't fully understand what is going on can not make informed decisions on their life or how they behave.

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