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Okay --- who is still missing?

Otter.

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Okay --- who is still missing?

I lost touch with Lazydaze a while back.

Why so Steve.
Barbyman
BigAlone
Shie


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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

When did he say he was seeing a professional?
Has he ever spoken to you about what's going on in his head?

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

I hate to say this,I've got a feeling this won't end well. I hope I'm wrong.
Sounds like a vicious circle.

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Vampy he sounds like he's got some serious issues. I know you've got your head screwed on girl (fangs do come in handy) and I just hope he does manage to get his own place.
Maybe things will improve then,either way you have always got back up here if things don't go according to plan.

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Vampy I can understand your predicament, I would probably do exactly the same. I have been known to be enabler myself,however I've realised through time the more you try to help the more you get shat on. You are stuck because whatever you do it's not going to be good enough.
I hate to say this but this relationship seems toxic.
You need to remind him you have feelings to.
What I would suggest is give yourselves time out. Separate to different rooms.

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How long has it been since this site closed?

I know it had been having problems for a while.
I think it was admin who told me it was going to close,im not sure..

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

I don't mean to sound patronising Vampy,but 4 months is nothing really. It's no surprise things are tense between you. I think everyone goes through that stage when there getting used to one another's habits.
Still this is no reason for you to be his punching bag (literally speaking) I'm glad he's seeking help,it means he's willing to try and change. I also think your more of his enabler than partner ATM. I understand mental health and the problems that come with it but you need him to make his own choices. He's a grown man after all.

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How long has it been since this site closed?

No I wasn't suggesting that, Soco.
I was just saying that it's not been ten years since the original help finished.

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How long has it been since this site closed?

soco wrote:
Almost 10. 2008.

It's not that long.
Help.com started having problems 2012 I think.
I joined in 2007/8. It was still going 5 yrs after that.
Think it got took over 2013.

When did Helptogo start?
I think it could've been a year after help.com.๐Ÿค”

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