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Hey guys, bit of help needed (pretty UK centric though)

I think your best bet is to go and talk to your GP?
You need a full assessment and once that is completed then he will refer you straight away.
Make a list of everything you need to tell him. So many times people have gone to open up then clam in the last minute.

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Hi, I was Nix on helptogo.

Hi Nix, it's about time!
Where you been?๐Ÿ˜Š

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I have a bit of a dilemma.

Aria wrote:
Perhaps you can have a quiet word to him first? Not that I am suggesting you lie to your friend, of course! But perhaps if he is aware of what is amiss, he might be able to be prepared for a situation that might have otherwise turned volatile.

If your friend is mad at you, hopefully, she could get over it once she understands that you had both of their interests in mind. However, I'm always one who plans for the worst, so I'm not exactly preaching what I practice there.

It also might benefit a bit for you to talk to her as calmly as you can (as anxiety with BP traits can be a bit sensitive) and try to get her to understand that though he loves her, that doesn't mean he can read her mind and know what she wants from him regarding this, and that all he will notice is her anger, but without her using her words, he's not going to figure out why or how to approach it with her.

I had already messaged him,Aria (as a warning) His fb account had not been used since Jan 2016 therefore he would not get the message. That's why I had to do it face to face.

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I have a bit of a dilemma.

Thank so guys for your feed back.๐Ÿ˜Š

Ok so I went round to speak to them both. I just acted casually telling him that I wanted to befriend him therefore my friend had seen who was on his profile and she wasn't very happy about it,she wanted to know why this woman was on it and what was the reason behind it.

Then it kicked off just like ai thought it would.
My friend started accusing him of this, that and the other.I had to be the mediator and tell her stop it!
Eventually things have calmed down but I have a feeling it won't be the end of it.

When her bf left I told her the reason I came round was because I was concerned. The guy did not deserve to be treated that way and it's been bothering me so I wanted them both to be in the same room so we can sort things out.
She said she was going to ask him bring his computer down so she can see who else he's cheating with. I told her don't talk so daft. He loves her so much the guy would never cheat on her.

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I have a bit of a dilemma.

Thanks Pep. I've sent him a message explaining what's happened,but now it's more difficult than I thought. Looking at his fb profile it looks like it's not been used since Jan 2016.
Which means he won't get the message. Now I'll have to speak to him face to face.
Now it might kick off. ๐Ÿ™

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Okay --- who is still missing?

Yeah I'm already here. Your forgiven.๐Ÿ˜‰

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I have a bit of a dilemma.

Yeah I also think it's the right thing to do, Rockster Like I say I can't see them breaking up over something so trivial. I just needed other perspectives. Thankyou.๐Ÿ˜

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I have a bit of a dilemma.

I did try to reason with her yesterday and told her to leave the poor guy alone otherwise she could push him away. He loves her to pieces. When she saw that picture I've never seen anyone flip like that. Now she's waiting for him to say "btw I've got a picture of?on my fb"
This won't happen cause the poor guy doesn't even know what he's done. I know she will fall out with me if I tell him,but I'm willing to put them two first.

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Okay --- who is still missing?

danihatesyou wrote:
evansent chunkymove cara

Do you mean me, Dani or someone else?

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@Legion is back in the room!

Sorry to here that B.
You know where I am if you want to talk.
Hope you feel better soon.*hugs*

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