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I feel like I’m pushing my boyfriend away.

I love him, I really do but I can’t make him understand how I really feel and what goes on inside my head and that’s what make this relationship so hard for me. I messed up when I allowed myself to use him as my source of happiness when I get depressed because he’s rarely available. He’s busy with college and work and I understand that and I love that about him .. but it still doesn’t change the fact that I feel so alone .. like I have no one to talk to. I’m really scared that he’s going to realize that I’m not what he wants and that he no longer wants to deal with me .. and that’s the last thing I want . 😔 But I just don’t know .. don’t know what to say to make it better, don’t know what to do to make it right. Idk maybe the best thing to do is to let him go & be with someone who can really make him happy ? 😔

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The conventional wisdom of the ages usually sets blinders - everyone knows their place...from this, people act. The results vary.
For example, I'm going to see you as I see you which may be different from how you really are. This is my response to you.
Entire eras have lived and died under this rod, being the case will anyone of be seen for who we are in our relationships?
Chances are not.
Still the show must go on. The cardinal rules will forever be greater than current trends.
Make me a sandwich and let's get physical.
Defy this and prepare for a life with cats and dark lonely nights.
What exactly are you doing for me and how well are you doing it?

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It sounds like you need to figure out yourself and who you are and what you want. You can love someone and be unhappy. Just bc you love someone doesn’t mean you should stay with them

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How often do you see him? I mean it sounds like he's doing everything he should be doing for a better future. That doesn't leave a lot of time, maybe you could get a job where he works or go to the same school or something. It doesn't sound like you don't make him happy, it just sounds like he's busy doing the right things. Should he quit school to hang out with you?

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DocteurRalph wrote:
. That doesn't leave a lot of time, maybe you could get a job where he works or go to the same school or something.

You should not follow your bf like a puppy to spend time with him. You are an independent women

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