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Where did you grow up?

Chicago

What is the highest level of education you have attained?

Bachelors in marketing

What subjects did/do you enjoy most at school?

Math

What's your favorite sport or sports?

Swimming

What kind of jobs have you held? Industries too!

Market research

What causes are you concerned about today?

How unhappy people are

If you claim a political party affiliation, which is it?

Liberal

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The job I just left is accusing me of stealing and is not going to pay me for the week I worked there.

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It has been 3 weeks since my last day and I emailed them asking if they could mail me my paycheck for the hours I worked. It was a very professional email and her response was ‘You still have a camera chip of ours.’ I never took any equipment home with me and this is the first time she has said anything. I responded telling her exactly where I left it. I know she is lying because they have posted photos from the chip on there website after I left. I don’t know what to do. I’m not even that...


How I lost my best friend to my depression.

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After getting dumped I got really depressed. Then I was Taken advantaged if by a guy and things got worse. I started cutting myself and was in a dark place. My best friend was always there for me even if he didn’t know how to help. He was the only person who I told everything. He has depression too so he understands. He was always my best friend but I know I was never his. One day he told me he couldn’t handle my depression and he didn’t know how to help me so he left. Eventually I went off my...


What’s the point.

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Why do I even bother having hope that things will work out when I’m just left disappointed. I assume things with go wrong so I’m not left disappointed but sometime I have hope and shocker, it goes wrong. I got my dream job, a marketing coordinator at an animal shelter. Well turns out that’s not really the job. I sit at a long front desk with 4 people, only 3 chairs, and 2 computers. I am given no direction on what I am supposed to do and am given no responsibilities. I took a pay cut and...


Every time I stand up life seems to shove me back down.

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So some of you may know that my sister just kicked me out of our apartment. I had moved from the city to the suburbs to live with her. Now my sublet from my apartment in the city decided she is moving out and will not be paying this months or any rent. I have no money to pay for the apartment and she said that it is infested with moths and is unlivable. I just cant do this anymore


I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

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He seems very pushy and I don’t want to put myself in a situation where things can go bad. I don’t know if I’m letting my previous experiences with guys get in the way or if my intuition is right. I agreed to go to a movie with this guy but now he wants me to go to his place 3 hours before the movie to ‘hang out’. I told him I don’t feel comfortable going to his place and he won’t take no for an answer. I don’t want to cancel bc I think it’s good for me to get back out there but I can’t figure...


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Ascendance

So I read your other post and I want to send my condolences. Losing a friend is hard and I know the feeling where you just want to talk to them again. As for this post I want to try my best to help but this is so eloquently written that most of it it over my head. But what I can tell is you like writing and you are good at it. Right now I think you need to take time to grieve. It is okay to throw a pitty party and be sad, sometime we forget that. Focus on the present and get through these next few weeks one day at a time. From there I think you should write more it will help you work out your feelings. I hope some of this was a little helpful. I’m sending a big hug

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Suicidal or not...

I’ve come to that conclusion myself too. But you must have one unrealistic dream that you’ve wanted? Mine is to run away to a different state of country where no one knows me. If I ever get to that point where I’m ready to end it all, I will runaway first. If I fail at that at least I know I tried

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How do I let go

Music- blasting it as loud as you can and singing on the top of your lungs

Car rides

A good book- or audio books

Stand up comedy

Dance

Workout

Sleeping pills and a good nights sleep

Movies

A good cry

Massage

Mani pedi


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Help.

First things first. Take the proper medication that you would normally take. It will calm you down. Second, I’ve been in your situation and although that all seems like enough to kill you it probably won’t. Drug overdosing is hard to to with just antidepressants and benzodiazepines. It will most likely put you in more pain. Thirdly hug your pet. You are doing the right thing by reaching out for help. I know you are in pain right now and it seems like your only option but it is not and we are all here to help. We love you.

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Art lessons.

Not sure what kind of art you like but my cousin just started experimenting with watercolors

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Ascendance

So I read your other post and I want to send my condolences. Losing a friend is hard and I know the feeling where you just want to talk to them again. As for this post I want to try my best to help but this is so eloquently written that most of it it over my head. But what I can tell is you like writing and you are good at it. Right now I think you need to take time to grieve. It is okay to throw a pitty party and be sad, sometime we forget that. Focus on the present and get through these next few weeks one day at a time. From there I think you should write more it will help you work out your feelings. I hope some of this was a little helpful. I’m sending a big hug

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Suicidal or not...

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Thanks for your response. Glad it touched a nerve. That was my intent.

that is very rude and disrespectful. If you don’t have anything nice or helpful to say don’t say anything.

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What's the best way to deal or accept people disliking you as a result of ignorance?

Try and correct there ignorance. Explain why they are misinformed. Sometimes we can all be ignorant with out knowing and need an explanation or a general reminder we are being stupid. If this is not the case then rise above it and show them through actions that they are stupid and misjudged you

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boyfriend is annoying the shit out of me....

I totally understand your perspective on this. You don’t want to confront your boss bc you don’t know how it will end and that is scary.

Your boyfriend wants what is best for you and only is seeing the logical approach to your situation which is why he’s getting frustrated.

First I would talk to your coworkers and see if this is happening to any of them. Then I would take the cowards ways out and send a professional email to your boss saying you noticed your paycheck has been short and ask if there has been in error in clocking your hours (that way it brings the issue up but makes you seem like a concerned employee that wants to make sure you’re doing everything correctly)

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