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Chicago

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Bachelors in marketing

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Math

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Swimming

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Market research

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How unhappy people are

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Liberal

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This guy I was best friends with birthday is coming up.

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Several months ago he told me he couldn’t be my friend anymore bc I was going through a lot and so was he and he couldn’t handle being my friend. A couple months ago I reached out to see how he was but the conversation was short lived. His birthday is coming up and I’d like to text him a simple happy birthday but I don’t know if this will make him upset. My birthday was a few weeks ago and I was sad he didn’t text. I don’t want to make his birthday about me so I wanted your opinion on if I...


I don’t have anything worth living for.

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I’ve learned time and time


Help.

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911. SOS. I screwed up and I don’t know how I’m going to recover. My ex-boyfriend is engaged and it’s really messed with my head. Like any person with no self-control I was constantly creeping on his fiancé and his social media accounts. Last week I made the decision to stop. I made sure to block them on everything as to not be tempted to check. I just got an email saying that they found out somehow and I need to stop. I feel horrible. I can’t stop crying and hyperventilating And I don’t know...


The job I just left is accusing me of stealing and is not going to pay me for the week I worked there.

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It has been 3 weeks since my last day and I emailed them asking if they could mail me my paycheck for the hours I worked. It was a very professional email and her response was ‘You still have a camera chip of ours.’ I never took any equipment home with me and this is the first time she has said anything. I responded telling her exactly where I left it. I know she is lying because they have posted photos from the chip on there website after I left. I don’t know what to do. I’m not even that...


How I lost my best friend to my depression.

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After getting dumped I got really depressed. Then I was Taken advantaged if by a guy and things got worse. I started cutting myself and was in a dark place. My best friend was always there for me even if he didn’t know how to help. He was the only person who I told everything. He has depression too so he understands. He was always my best friend but I know I was never his. One day he told me he couldn’t handle my depression and he didn’t know how to help me so he left. Eventually I went off my...


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I have autism (Aspergers) and dyspraxia and don't know what jobs I can do and feel like a drain to society.

I want to start off by saying that I am so proud of you. You are trying so hard and I don’t think any person has that in them. From that alone I see that you are a hard worker and I would want you on my team. The fact that they aren’t hiring you is discrimination and it saddens me that we live in a world like that. I have 3 little cousins with different forms of asbergers and I am honestly so impressed with how intelligent they are. I think that working with animals would be an amazing job. I know shelters look for someone to photograph the animals to help them get adopted. I also know a few people who work in a library and love it. Make a list of skills that you have (include those that your asburgers gives you-some may seem negative but you can always spinn them to be positive). I am so impressed by you and you inspire me to not give up even when things are hard.

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talking is so useless.

I disagree completely. We don’t talk enough. There are so many things unsaid that if as a society we weren’t scared to talk about we could solve problems.

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Fill my heart with mercy please!

I have but not in the relationship sense. I love my grandpa unconditionally and I honestly don’t know if I could survive without him.

I think that in order to love unconditionally in the relationship sense you have to love yourself unconditionally first. This is something I need to work on but I think once I realize what I deserve I could be in a functioning relationship with that kind of love.

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I must be the most experienced person on this site except for the few exceptions like that sherlock dude and a couple others I know are here but can't think of atm.

Guys, we have all been there. You have to understand that anon is just frustrated and is venting. I don’t think they are actually trying to offend any of us.

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doctor please

I don’t always understand you posts, but this one made me laugh. I needed that

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This guy I was best friends with birthday is coming up.

verge wrote:
I would probably not make any contact just in case he's still vulnerable and it could hurt him.

You’re right. I just want him to know I’m there for him. I think it just makes me sad that we aren’t friends anymore and I don’t really understand why.

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Let's talk about victim shaming.

Sherlock wrote:
PS I was an Army commander and I protected my soldiers. I called for an outside investigation within the hour of hearing any allegation.

More information

Percent of being falsely accused of ****rape 0.005%
Percent of being falsely accused of murder- 44%
Getting attack by a shark .00001%

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Let's talk about victim shaming.

Sherlock wrote:
PS I was an Army commander and I protected my soldiers. I called for an outside investigation within the hour of hearing any allegation.

This is a common misconception between men and women of society. Men have this fear of being falsely accused of ****rape when in actuality these odds are slim to none. Case you bring up is an exception to the rule but we should not change your habits based on that. Compare being *****raped to being attacked by a shark. The odds of getting attacked by a shark are extremely low. It is not the sharks fault when it attacks, so we shouldn’t go hunting sharks. What we should do is educate people on how to avoid getting attacked by shark. This applies to ****rape and ****rape culture. We should not punish women for coming forward about being *****raped. But we should educate people on not ******raping people and not supporting ****rape culture

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Let's talk about victim shaming.

I once read an article where parents would ask their children if they could hug them or pick them up. The thought behind this was that you should always ask before doing something that the other may not like. Little things like this need to be implemented in our children at a young age. A person should never have to do anything they are not comfortable with and asking first is a must. It may be at the point of no return to teach men this concept but I think that we need to teach our children better

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Let's talk about victim shaming.

And that is why I didn’t. I just wanted to forget and pretend it never happened. What we really need to do is to teach men. But after this whole thing i think we set women’s rights back

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