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Where did you grow up?

Chicago

What is the highest level of education you have attained?

Bachelors in marketing

What subjects did/do you enjoy most at school?

Math

What's your favorite sport or sports?

Swimming

What kind of jobs have you held? Industries too!

Market research

What causes are you concerned about today?

How unhappy people are

If you claim a political party affiliation, which is it?

Liberal

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Ending friends with benefits.

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I’ve been booking up with this guy since July. We really only see each other a couple times a month and I’d like to break it off. Since we rarely see each other I want to send I text. I know it’s not the right way to do things but what I’ve done in past situations is just stop texting them. I want to break that cycle and face my fear of disappointing people. How should I do this. Should I lead in slowly and strike up a conversation (keep in mind he takes hours or days to respond to my texts) or...


Trust issues.

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I’ve come to realize I have serious trust issues. I hate putting my faith in people when I always get let down. But then I trust people who have red flags or do reckless things bc I have no fear. For example, I will go out running at midnight when I live in a dangerous city or I handle dogs that will bite me bc I think I can take care of myself. But then with my family and in relationships I am too scared to be dependent and trust someone else. I don’t know how if I realize when I should feel...


Need help writing a text.

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I have been casually seeing this guy since July. We are essentially friends with benefits. We really only talk once a week and meet up every 3 weeks. I am not seeking a relationship with him but I want to know if that is what he thinks it will lead to or if he wants to peacefully break things off. He’s mentioned that he needs to get his life together and the possibility of an arranged marriage. I just want to ask him what’s going on so that I get a clear answer. Any suggestions?


I don’t know what to do anymore.

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I am exhausted and sad all the time. When I’m at work all I want to do is hide under my desk. Things I use to dream of like marriage, kids, and a home repulse me now. I just want to be left alone and hide from the world. I have tried therapy, medication, exercise, putting myself out there, and treating myself and I still find my self losing hope that life is worth it. Does anyone have any suggestions of things that have helped you?


This guy I was best friends with birthday is coming up.

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Several months ago he told me he couldn’t be my friend anymore bc I was going through a lot and so was he and he couldn’t handle being my friend. A couple months ago I reached out to see how he was but the conversation was short lived. His birthday is coming up and I’d like to text him a simple happy birthday but I don’t know if this will make him upset. My birthday was a few weeks ago and I was sad he didn’t text. I don’t want to make his birthday about me so I wanted your opinion on if I...


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I have autism (Aspergers) and dyspraxia and don't know what jobs I can do and feel like a drain to society.

I want to start off by saying that I am so proud of you. You are trying so hard and I don’t think any person has that in them. From that alone I see that you are a hard worker and I would want you on my team. The fact that they aren’t hiring you is discrimination and it saddens me that we live in a world like that. I have 3 little cousins with different forms of asbergers and I am honestly so impressed with how intelligent they are. I think that working with animals would be an amazing job. I know shelters look for someone to photograph the animals to help them get adopted. I also know a few people who work in a library and love it. Make a list of skills that you have (include those that your asburgers gives you-some may seem negative but you can always spinn them to be positive). I am so impressed by you and you inspire me to not give up even when things are hard.

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talking is so useless.

I disagree completely. We don’t talk enough. There are so many things unsaid that if as a society we weren’t scared to talk about we could solve problems.

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Fill my heart with mercy please!

I have but not in the relationship sense. I love my grandpa unconditionally and I honestly don’t know if I could survive without him.

I think that in order to love unconditionally in the relationship sense you have to love yourself unconditionally first. This is something I need to work on but I think once I realize what I deserve I could be in a functioning relationship with that kind of love.

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I must be the most experienced person on this site except for the few exceptions like that sherlock dude and a couple others I know are here but can't think of atm.

Guys, we have all been there. You have to understand that anon is just frustrated and is venting. I don’t think they are actually trying to offend any of us.

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doctor please

I don’t always understand you posts, but this one made me laugh. I needed that

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Hello

Can the tires be patched? I got mine patched for free at discount tires

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Trust issues.

Grim_Hardcastle wrote:
You lack self acceptance. That is the root to your insecurities.

What do you mean?

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if i were the president of the world

Fix everything!

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Which would you choose?

We live in a society where women are oppressed by men. When they break promises we don’t say anything and a quick to forgive. But he need to be held accountable. Next time he does something you don’t like- be direct and tell him 1. What he did wrong 2. What he can do differently next time. In my experience if you don’t express how you feel they will continue with the pattern. Now if you have tried all this tell him that if he doesn’t start acting like a partner you don’t want to stick around.

I know all this is harsh and is scary to tell someone but it needs to be said.

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Happy Birthday, Help-QA.com!

I was reading a letter I wrote to myself at the end of jr high and I mentioned help.com. This has been my safe haven on and off for 8 years of my life

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