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I have been a little stressed.written () ago
My circumstances aren't bad, but a couple more twelve hour shifts and a short period of financial panic has me less centered. I had today off and I acted like a zombie instead of doing stuff that's good for me. I just hope I can get it together before the holidays! Anyway, good things are coming. I just wanted to vent a tiny bit and also ask for all your best tips for keeping healthy and motivated when you feel chaotic and just want to not think.
Gratefulness is helpful, so I am grateful for it.written () ago
What are you grateful for?
You are here, you’re present, you’re alive. You’re winning at life in my book. Thinking of things that you’re genuinely grateful for can really give more perspective. You probably have the weight of the world on your shoulders, but you can shrug it off for a minute. This is a good place to take a break and acknowledge the reality beyond whatever cornered thinking you got tricked into.- written - voted for by smiley, music=life
You are so valuable and worthwhile. Everybody makes mistakes, and that's okay. That's how people learn you know! Consider yourself one mistake wiser. You deserve to take a well-deserved break from the consequences of learning a helpful lesson, but you don't have to be immobilized (been there) if you can't afford to be now. Take good care of yourself because you deserve your unconditional love, no matter how mad anyone feels like getting. Also, a little communication goes a long way and may help heal a lot in a relationship if that's something important to you related to the upset. You may be surprised that talking can heal if the other person is willing to listen.- written - voted for by BIG.AL.ONE, Araz
Stop it. I AM NOT INSECURE NOR DID I EVEN TALK ABOUT IT WITH HER.
IM JUST TOSSING AROUND HOW I felt about it with helpers.
Scroll up and read her patterns.
In plain english. Shes a flirt with males and gets off on it because of her looks.
What I need to decide is if I can respect myself with this abuse..
Hi, I'm honestly just trying to help. I would like to help you see that insecurity is something everyone struggled with and no judgement on your character. It can come from one partner disrespecting you too much, but something that needs to be addressed is that if you honestly see your worth, these things she did wouldn't hurt you so much. The fact that you didn't even talk with her about it, but posted about it on Facebook to get other people's opinions makes it more obvious. She got the ride for you two, in one case, she was obligated basically to sit with the friend to validate the basis of the transaction - friendship.- written - voted for by Rockster160
Girl number two sounds uninterested in you, just from the contextless spark comment you shared. You dated girl 1, called it off for girl 2, she turned you down, right? If so, I'm guessing you're not going to have much luck with her, but since you're not really into the girl you're seeing now, maybe you should think about looking for something else. I am one of those people who thinks that real love involves a lot of choice and commitment though and that you won't find it if you're infatuated with people who aren't interested in you. Go get em! Whichever you decide!- written
No relationships are perfect because nobody is perfect. We are all messed up somehow. You might need to step back to see things more clearly. I don't know your life, but maybe you bailed on your boyfriend and friend, people who care about you, at a bad time. All relationships take work to maintain, it could be that your particular methods are unsustainable. Social interaction and love are so important. I'm just a random person on the internet who will unfortunately never really know you, but I have a feeling you'd go crazy living back with your family.- written
I hope you find the strength to be kind to yourself.- written
Again, thanks for taking the time to reply, everyone! I really appreciate it.- written
Sometimes doing nothing is the best way to recharge. Don't feel guilty for it. Thats what I have learned over the years. I don't do nothing enough lol.
Thanks Nix, sometimes giving yourself permission is the trickiest part. :)- written
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