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lillybelle70
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I tried at life and I failed.

I’ve been here too long. Tired too many times. Never got anywhere. Nothing to show for life. I don’t have anything left to give.

I honestly don’t want to be here anymore.

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I feel you. I wish I could give words of wisdom but when your in that headspace it’s really hard to get out of it. But the one advice I have to give is you have time. I volunteer at an animal shelter and it is a way of giving back. Or run away and start the life you’ve always dreamed of living

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You are here, you’re present, you’re alive. You’re winning at life in my book. Thinking of things that you’re genuinely grateful for can really give more perspective. You probably have the weight of the world on your shoulders, but you can shrug it off for a minute. This is a good place to take a break and acknowledge the reality beyond whatever cornered thinking you got tricked into.

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I’m not religious at all, don’t believe in god in the normal sense, but I really connect with this advice from Mathew 6:25 through 34
You don’t need to look at it, it just reminds me that when you just decide to trust life, that it’s good now, things suddenly get a lot more simple and easy.

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Hi lillybelle70. Are you new? I am very much interested to learn how you found our site. To be quite honest, your post is one of the main reasons we exist. People helping each other without needing one thin dime from the other.
I am glad you are here and hope you find your visit pleasurable. Welcome!

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We have another hurricane coming this way.

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Life is something you are given, not something you 'try at.'

I’ve been here too long.

I have a sneeking suspicion that I've been here longer than you - shall I spare you the comparisons?

Tired too many times.

I have a sneeking suspicion that I've been here longer than you - oh wait.... sorry.... I tend to repeat myself when I'm tired - oh wait....

Never got anywhere.

Well....what difference does that make? Think about it... You're never going to be anywhere but where you are no matter where you go....
It's more important to make the most of where you're at.

Nothing to show for life.

....Correct. Life already has it all. Did you really think you could pick a flower and put it in the ear of life and think it would be impressed?
Here....🌹....this is for you.

I don’t have anything left to give.

I see.... When your mom gave birth, you came into life wearing fine silk clothes wove on the looms of gods, you knew where the bathroom was and you had serious verbratto in your opery-atic voice.
And the world stopped loving you when you lost it all at the ripe age of....?....three?....and things have never been the same since.

Although there are some exceptions, no one happily lives life on their own terms. Got a plan? Forget it. People form power structures and that is where you will find your place, your purpose, your comfort, your security and (of course), love.

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Always, always, always just give it one more day.

As long as you are here, you haven't failed. You're just still learning from your mistakes.

Along with encouragement, is there anything else that you need? What can we do to help you keep going?

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Big hug Lillybelle70..

If you are up for it, we can start listing our failures who's failed more..! ;)

I'm sorry you feel so low and things haven't been so well.

The folks here are reaaaly nice and we are so happy you found your way here - hope you'll let us support you, and soon see the light at the end of that depressing tunnel - it does have an end!

Sending lots of love and light xx

Hayao
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Stop giving and just live. You don't need to produce anything for anyone. You're enough.

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Of course you failed. We all do. The only people who do not fail are those who never attempt anything.

What is it that you want to do--and more importantly, who is it that you want to be? That's the starting point!

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