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One of the most interesting things in life is to learn about stages and stations.

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To obtain wisdom and experience and to expand and share this as well as observing the natural cycle in others.

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Help-QA feature poll: Changing Anonicons

I think the individual should be responsible for their content and not be under the protection of anonymity. This means that one have to think more about what one post.

Within this setup there is already a sort of mystery as of who the individuals really are, and there is enough room for being anonymous already in that regards.

If one cannot own up to what one say or become scared of someone finding out, then maybe those things should not be posted online at all for all to see.

Does not mean it have to be that way. Its just my opinion on the matter.

- written - voted for by PepperJ, BIG-AL-ONE
this is why i don't trust pharmaceutical drugs or the company's who make them...

One of the things that happens within the emotions is that empathy is subdued and the darker nature’s of man comes forth. This is difficult to handle for the individual and require great strength of mind to overcome.
The feelings in general alter so much that the personality changes and the suppressed inner being comes forth and manifests as something we could call evil.

These side effects are often downplayed and silenced, but are well known. In most cases it does not come forth in a strong manner, but for a small percentage that has the latency, it has devastating effects.

The need to look again on substances and chemicals is adamant for a greater understanding of the human psyche and the understanding of consciousness. The fact of the matter is that the violence lives within all of us as we are beings of light and dark forces, but the influences and the potential separate us in how the influence manifest in the individual.

I find great danger in tampering with the body chemistry and this is also not an exact science in any way. Most of it is at an experimental stage where there are massive human trials in effect and there are no sound regulations on this to make sure that bad things does not happen. Many lives are ruined and lost because of it and the dark numbers are far too high to let it go by unnoticed.
One issue is that credibility is taken away from people undergoing treatments and what we have is the voice of beard stroking men with no actual experience of what happens on the individual level. The authority has been taken and is thus also given blindly to entities with no other interest than self preservation.

- written - voted for by Jebus-Zeus
Do you believe in soulmates?

I believe in opportunities for personal growth.

Some people will awaken love in you with no desire to return the favor. Some will treat you like crap. Some will tell you the truth. Some will give you guidance. Some will give you information. Some will give you help. Some will give you their heart.

In spiritual theory, as BA1 mentions, the search for the ideal mate can be seemingly endless as it’s hard to tell when the pairing will take place. For some it might have been a chance gone by as well as we are not always open to what life brings us.

To grow as a human being is painful. So we need to go through quite an ordeal to get understanding of what is worth while and what is not. Many live under the delusion that one can just lull about and everything will come like a destiny or fate.
The work one put in calls upon the future and brings in the needed experiences.

The lessons can be hard to discern as one might be too caught up in an ideal or idea so that one get in the way of it. This is the inherent stupidity in mankind and part of our immaturity. This has nothing to do with age btw.

When one opens up for experiences and start learning, changes come about. It does not always feel like it’s for the better, but that is until the experience is there.
If one refuse all this, one become a shell or a walking dead of which life tends to stay pretty much exactly the same year in and year out.

- written - voted for by Evansent
There seems to be an epidemic of cases of bipolar in the usa and uk.

The increased prevalence is a measure of the mental health on society as a whole. As we live undynmic machine like lives we become robbed of our nature and it’s difficult to be well adjusted to it.

I would say that anyone that thrives in this day an age either is having some dark issues or is ignorant. I could say being stupid is probably the best thing to feel good.

We do have some lack when it comes to nutrition that causes mental problems. This is something that will come forth as we progress and the so called science catches up. The dsm as it stands is merely a group of beard stroking men getting together with their warped views.

If we return to the holistic approach and see the individual, the “illness” quickly disappears. It’s then recognized more as a symptom of something else. The religion of doctors and big pharma as it stands now needs to come undone as the naked emperor in front of the people and we need to address issues for what they are instead of inventing all kinds of crap to try to explain simple matters.

We also need to learn self acceptance and refrain from edhering to the social persona as that is detrimental to the health of the individual. This is manifested either as a disease or disorder, and is merely the self fighting the false and coming through to be of guidance.

Some cases of mental issues will be more serious, but we need more studies on this. Loading people up with chemicals have dire consequences and we are seeing the fruits of the malpractice now in increasing numbers. It takes a long time to explain this, but it started decades ago and is ongoing.

The way of living against nature makes forces come down upon one in ways that is meant to promote healing. Understanding is needed, and mostly this is an individual journey.

No diagnose can define the individual unless there is a choice to identify with it. This then becomes an excuse to avoid the pain of facing oneself and to avoid being exposed and vulnerable. This also is something that prolongs the healing process which is a fall and then a climb back up to be renewed.

Mankind also goes through larger cycles. If this is not addressed then we will bring forth madness instead of gaining the benefits of insights from beyond the veil. It’s not all that complicated, but in our time it’s not accepted because the dumb think they know everything when in fact they know nothing.
These problems will increase steadily over the next few years and we will see more strange behavior in the coming times.
We will also see some “new” diseases probably in the next year or perhaps in the next five. So much more to look forward to.

For the ones that think that they are in a bad way, there is a lot of good to be gained from the winter cycle. It’s an opportunity to sanitize the self and to get rid of much of the false and become honest with who one is as a person and as an individual.

- written - voted for by BIG-AL-ONE
Why are people so hung up on looks?

Because sight is our preferred sense when making judgments and we have been socially programmed to put most of our stock on looks.

There is a lot more to it than mere magazine beauty. For myself I cannot see the person behind a thick mask and don’t see the point in the projections, but people are easily mislead.

The heart will be the most important feature, but looks and how a person carries themselves does make a difference as we gauge how we match based on certain features. The genetics will be involved in preferences and there is only so much one can do about that.

This said, we also have a lot of programming going on about appearance which do not conform with the dynamic nature of matchmaking, which for the easily influenced will cause problems and tough lessons as one then learn that what’s behind the facade bear no resemblance to what one initially thought was there. This then becomes a falsehood of which veils truth, be it permeates our general perception to a point of living in a false world where not even truth is seen as truth.
The offset then brings on personal experiences that comes with pain so that the individual can learn to look past the outside and get more in touch with the feeling and intuition instead of learned reaction. The difference here is only learnt by experience, so we have to pass through the fire to get to an understanding.

- written - voted for by Evansent
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What do you all think about a woman dating a guy who is a little over 4 years younger than her?

Just talk to him about it.

Age should not be an issue when passed into adulthood. Many people are way too concerned about age and end up miserable because their narrow parameters have not been met.

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Question 5...Wednesday

That’s happened several times.
The last good one was visiting a friend. A split second decision changed everything.
Although the consequences right now are awful, there was a long time with promise and hope. So it brought with it many of the best moments of my life, so I don’t regret it.

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I don’t want to be angry.

You learn and grow from everything.
Understanding comes at a price and part of that is pain.
To avoid it means you stop growing. Seems good in the moment, but is not good long term.

You don’t need be in faulty relations. Just take the lessons and move on to the next. In time it gets easier to know where you’re time is worth spending. Also need to recognize your self worth and take responsibility for your journey through life.

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Question number 3 guys...(missed yesterday)

my heart spoke to me and less when my head did..

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Question number 2, said in a post yesterday...

Life experience and understanding.

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