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Ok so everyone I work with absolutely hates our boss. They tell me she is rude to me and they don’t like how she treats everyone. The thing is, I think she can be rude but there is something about her that I don’t think is that bad. Idk. Maybe I take her comments differently or maybe it don’t bother me. I mean there are moments where I’m like OMG. But I just think everyone has their moments. Is something wrong with me? Why can’t I see how “horrible” she is?

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Good luck

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I've got a feeling that the both of you could be good friends.

There's no doubt I'm rude but I try to make clear what it is based upon. Given my skills....most people get it, others do not. Other times, I'm in a world of my own.

In any case, it sounds as though you can see the meaning and intents of your boss beyond her transgression.

You're doing a better job than your co-workers. Step over this way for a minute...

We live in a society filled with double standards - far too many to list here, but the example for the meantime goes to this effect -

"You can't judge a book by it's cover."

BUT

"First impressions are the most important."

Well....if you can't judge a book by its cover then you can't take a first impression too seriously.

The problem is society forms conclusions based on first impressions and yet thinks itself wise beyond moulded history.

So, you're doing yourself (and your boss) a favor when you can see past her staged curtain of rudeness.

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perhaps .. the bully just needs some love and understanding ;)

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Yorick wrote:
perhaps .. the bully just needs some love and understanding ;)

Yeah....yeah - that's it!

Love!

https://youtu.be/_7xMfIp-irg

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http://poster.keepcalmandposters.com/default/59...

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Sometimes you just have to face the fact that you are surrounded by idiots.

I get interrupted a lot. Some people will ask me a question and then interrupt the answer. I get so tired of being interrupted that I stop talking, turn my back, and walk away. And people think I am rude when I do that! Surrounded by idiots!

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