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How do I stop people from saying 'oh when are you having children?' When are you getting married?'

I am 28 years old soon 29 and people keep on telling me this.

I tell them to back off but the people don't listen. What do I do?

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After you've told them you do not have immediate plans to have children, if they keep harassing you, just avoid them. Make it clear why you are avoiding them if they ever ask.

If it's your parents or other close family, and not otherwise toxic, you might have to just tolerate it with his humor. Maybe someday they will stop.

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smiley wrote:
After you've told them you do not have immediate plans to have children, if they keep harassing you, just avoid them. Make it clear why you are avoiding them if they ever ask.

If it's your parents or other close family, and not otherwise toxic, you might have to just tolerate it with his humor. Maybe someday they will stop.

Thank you so much, it is everyone listed. It has been going on for years. I am not in a relationship which makes it worst. I am happy to way I am now but I feel that the people in my life don't stop

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"None of your business!" Repeat as often as necessary, especially for the deaf and dumb.

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soco wrote:
"None of your business!" Repeat as often as necessary, especially for the deaf and dumb.

Thanks for the encouragement. I will use this sentence to boost my confidence.

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