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When he died we hadn't spoke for a couple of months, and that was unusual.

I suddenly had a really bad feeling so I text him, got no.reply so tried ringing him, no answer.
Dent him fb msgs but they remained unread.

Carried on trying.

Next day I was so worried I contacted his sister, then his friend.

They told me he had just died.

How is that even possible that I could be so sure that he suddenly wasn't ok???

After a couple of months I knew for certain at that time something had happened???

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

Araz wrote:

J.N-Bucking wrote:
Araz, you are correct I can't get the certificate, but that would only be a cause of death, not the full story.

Private investigator isn't a bad idea, and I hadn't thought of that.
I couldn't be more skint lately so wouldn't be possible now, but def one to be considered.

I'm not sure I can fully explain my reasons for wanting this.
We had split up at least 2 yrs before he died, but we remained good friends and talked often, and even though we both moved far away we met up when we could

Wouldn’t hurt to get some sort of free consultation just to see what they might charge and what they are capable of doing?

It’s ok if you can’t explain your reasons, sometimes it’s hard to understand yourself let alone make someone else understand.

I really loved him when we were together. He really loved me too.

He saved me when we met and I'll be forever greatful to him for that.

We were together a long time and we did everything together

We were free spirits together, we moved all over the North together.

I found a new world with him, and he found a new life with me.

We had to seperate eventually, but even after we split we were each other's safety net.

We lived strange lives and often ended up in bad situations we needed rescuing from, and it didn't matter where the other one was, one of us would always get to the other to save them, we travelled huge journeys to get to the other and would stay together until things could be ok again.

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

I am English, he was from cork in southern Ireland, there is a LOT of hatred and racism between England and Ireland.

His mum hated me, I knew her quite well, she tolerated me as we lived near each other on a Scottish island, but when he came to stay with her and we met and started getting close she did all she could to stop it, and when we got together and got serious and started living together she was raging.
She put an act on to my face, but constantly tried to get him to leave me.

We moved a long way away from her but she still tried making him leave me.

He tried to kill himself and I physically saved him, when she found out she hated me less.

I am pretty sure she would know full details but I've no way of getting them from her.

A lot of his friends hated me just cos I'm English, a couple of them looked past that and liked me regardless of that, but we lost contact.
There's now only the one I annoyed with pushing it so much to find out the details that I could contact, but I doubt she knows more than I already know.

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

Yeti. wrote:
Do you know any of his friends?

I did, but we have lost contact, and the one I spoke with most at the time I pushed too much and annoyed.
I doubt she would have bothered to find out the autopsy and inquest details so unlikely she would know.

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

Araz, you are correct I can't get the certificate, but that would only be a cause of death, not the full story.

Private investigator isn't a bad idea, and I hadn't thought of that.
I couldn't be more skint lately so wouldn't be possible now, but def one to be considered.

I'm not sure I can fully explain my reasons for wanting this.
We had split up at least 2 yrs before he died, but we remained good friends and talked often, and even though we both moved far away we met up when we could

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Araz wrote:
Ummmm 2007? Or 2006? I can’t remember. I searched help and have been on/off since then.

I was addicted immediately, but couldn't get fully into the last one that held no similarities to the original.

I went on daily when I was made a moderator as I was the only English one so when I got on at 06.00 it was down to me to remove all the spam as the Americans wouldn't be around for hours, but after a while even the spammers stopped and I had too much going on in my life I withdrew from everything

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

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Thanks Helpbot , you were the first to reply on my first post for help too.

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It was about 2004/5 that I found the site.
I was sat in a library on Shetland island using a public computer, trying desperately to find help for my then partner, and in frustration at repetitively drawing blanks, typed HELPPPPP into the search bar
And that was the start of my addiction to help.

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Madeline McCann

Why are they throwing so much money at this?

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I will put more thought into what you said, and reply better tomorrow whilst at work when I have more time.

But -

Considering 911 was tour government, that 50mil bounty would have to be paid for a government assassination to get revenge for 911

I have in the past considered bin Laden's involvement in 911, and the most obvious answer is - the government struck a deal with him

Even before he was blamed for 9/11 he was already one of the most wanted people in the world

He was allowed to go free as long as he disappeared and was never seen again.
He could never reveal what he knew, and in return he would be left alone.
There would be more to the deal than that, but that's the base of it
This way the gullible feel appeased, the government seem like they've followed through and solved an issue, and all the rich get richer off the back of the world's biggest 'terror ' attack and the people are kept in the dark.

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