Not a mass exodus just yet.

I dont know many icelanders, but i have worked with a few and they are lovely people.

For information

Scandinavia is Norway, Sweden and Denmark.

We also have a larger grouping of the north including Iceland, Greenland, Finland and the faroe islands.

To understand anything of science and religion the two has to be merged together. Then it starts making sense. One without the other does not.

This is the whole point of the factions as well. Its meant to keep people divided and have their stupidity lead the way for conflicts.

Not sure if i have any grays yet. I've had a grey tinge overall for years though.
As long as it dont fall off i don't care about the color.

Been loads of changes since then. Still on the same mission it seems though. Gathering experience and depth.
I can't remember proper when exact the site went down either. It did feel like an era was over. Many a night spent on a crappy chair in front of my small laptop clicking away to find some sort of substance.

Would say I'm richer from the experience though. Have gotten quite a lot out of the effort spent on that site. Its rather odd to see how it has opened doors in a sense. Naturally, the choices have been my own, but i did feel like there was some aid coming through there anyways. So i´ve done things i thought i´d never do and been many a place i thought i´d never go.
Met loads of people as well.

Life onwards from here is uncertain. Instead of being staring into a dark abyss its a festival of opportunity. Makes it difficult to choose, but i can live with that.

Its not been easy, and it wont be easier onwards either. Still grateful for the experiences though. Matured a lot through them and also gathered a deeper understanding of what it means to be human.

Can’t remember having been to any other, so difficult to pick a favorite without more information.
I do like this one we are on, but I don’t like what we are doing on it. That makes no sense to me and it feels like I should be off to my home world.

Nope.
I believe in opportunities for personal growth.

Some people will awaken love in you with no desire to return the favor. Some will treat you like crap. Some will tell you the truth. Some will give you guidance. Some will give you information. Some will give you help. Some will give you their heart.

In spiritual theory, as BA1 mentions, the search for the ideal mate can be seemingly endless as it’s hard to tell when the pairing will take place. For some it might have been a chance gone by as well as we are not always open to what life brings us.

To grow as a human being is painful. So we need to go through quite an ordeal to get understanding of what is worth while and what is not. Many live under the delusion that one can just lull about and everything will come like a destiny or fate.
The work one put in calls upon the future and brings in the needed experiences.

The lessons can be hard to discern as one might be too caught up in an ideal or idea so that one get in the way of it. This is the inherent stupidity in mankind and part of our immaturity. This has nothing to do with age btw.

When one opens up for experiences and start learning, changes come about. It does not always feel like it’s for the better, but that is until the experience is there.
If one refuse all this, one become a shell or a walking dead of which life tends to stay pretty much exactly the same year in and year out.

Experience set the foundation for understanding. Understanding lay the foundation for wisdom. Wisdom brings with it a whole different view of things.
This means going through pain and fear. We tend to avoid this and try to live in a perpetual summer. Thus we maintain a solitude as we become afraid that who we are is not good enough, and we create a persona or a mask to show the world, but never act as a true self.

It’s simple really. One have to be real to operate on a healthier level. This will also ring forth he real in others and relations change. One observe individuals as something different when the masks comes off.

Being screwed over in whatever way is a choice. Not understanding this is ignorance. To do it knowledgeably is stupidity.

If the one path is not working, another can be taken.
It’s also difficult to earn the right to speak in real terms. Most people will never let you in.

The learning is about letting go. Letting go of a lot of the fear and judgement.
It’s not an easy thing, but it is simple. It’s about getting out of the way.

For me personally I’m fed up with dealing with all the fake. Thus I rarely talk to anyone at all. The persona is a waste of time. An illusion. A figment of the imagination to a frightened and cowardly individual that is terrified of being a self.

This is why wild animals run away. This “thing” that comes along is an abomination in nature and does not belong. Still many people adhere to this psychosis and spin a web they end up trapping themselves in. Wasting away in pain and suffering that is completely unnecessary.

People like you based on the way you make them feel.

This can be explored further based on the individuals preferences, experience level and personality. Formative years says a lot about the chosen relationships, but few take the time to take in the lessons of life and to grow with the experiences and end up bitter blaming everyone for their failures.

On the whole one have to uphold responsibility and learn who one actually is. Relationships should help with this process, if not they are destructive or rendered mute in the overall growth process.

On an additional note, people in general are terrified of exposing themselves and shy away from being true. This comes into manifestation in relationship to self firstly, but also to others.
From there comes all the issues.

The theoretical basis of alteration is one of levels. The understanding and innate potential is what decide on which level we will be able to make alterations. Perception is also playing a big part here as well as social programming, and it will return to knowing thyself.

If you want a quick fix for anything, it will never happen and you find yourself running in circles. This is because of a lack of understanding. The easiest way to alter the way of life that goes nowhere id to seek guidance. This is a force that is also seeking you, and it is always there in a sense as well to aid in your development. When you transcend your station, your reality changes. This also makes you aware of some of the power you have in creating your own path.

It´s not possible to explain in words how this all works, because there is a need for practice and experience.
Things can be said of course about how to go about certain things, but it´s not allowed to share such information as some will abuse it. Thus this remains rather illusive for most unfortunately and the illusion remains that life is something that just happens to us without having any control over anything.
Systems are in place in this realm to keep us locked up in this, but as with everything we can break free from it and change direction at any point.

The "danger" of course by altering ones path is that there is a cleansing cycle that has to be gone through. This is difficulty and pain mostly, and it makes a lot of people refrain from change in fear. It is in a sense a fear of facing oneself, as that is something that is difficult to do.

I realise that i do not answer this question in a simple manner, and that is because the simplicity of the needed actions are complex without understanding. A teacher would say that if you don´t like where you are, you should go somewhere else. And a good teacher would also make suggestions for where you need to go. This would not be a permanent dwelling, but a path to help you grow and learn. For instance, you might be told to pick up a certain vocation to be able to understand the deeper meanings of teachings when having something tangible to relate it to.