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My little bro is getting married.

What others do should not be taken into account of what you need to do for your own happiness.

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I feel like I’m the girl who never gets the guy.

I would say that exposure to people and being honest is key.

It can be difficult to find someone that one feels it is falling into place with. A relationship also always takes effort to make grow and this takes time and commitment.

There are many people looking for a life partner, so the timing is difficult to estimate.

For my own part i considered myself unworthy of love for the longest time so i waited long to start building experience.
I´m also not interested in just play. I want the whole deal for something permanent. Someone to share experiences with, wake up with and live with to expand and grow more.

Do not hold illusions that it will always be easy either. I dont think love ever is.
I´ve traveled far to try and find it and i have found it as well. Though it did not last forever, its good to make the experiences come to life and to learn from it all. It has given me quite a lot to allow love into my life and it has made me come to realize a lot more about what it means to be human.

So on the whole i keep my door open for it so that i wont resist if the window opens again.

I feel there is a power in the love that is not to be found anywhere else. Does not mean one cannot be fine on ones own, but that there is a difference of sharing things with someone.

Think there is a need for balance as well. We need to be comfortable with who we are as well as comfortable and able to trust another. Experiences can put us off it, but steps with one does not mean its going to be the same with another. It would be unfair to judge all on the basis of the actions of one.

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Stupidity

Depends.

You would need to specify the problems, individuals involved and the parameters of the actions performed.

If anything was to be drawn from the original question it would be that you repeatedly make things too complicated for one or more individuals and refuse to alter the parameters to achieve the desired results.

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Fill my heart with mercy please!

Observe what you do, find out why and work on how to better yourself. Its a journey, not a destination.

Loving unconditionally is difficult. We do things out of motivation. Love in itself is or it is not. There are no conditions left there. The conditions come in the practical applications.

Within love i find the greatest pleasure and the worst pain. But i´ll do it all again and again to grow.

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Help.

It takes time to come to terms and to let go.
Don’t try to control your emotions. Try to observe them and pass through them to gain more understanding of why you do what you do.
Insight makes it easier to cope.

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What do you all think about a woman dating a guy who is a little over 4 years younger than her?

Just talk to him about it.

Age should not be an issue when passed into adulthood. Many people are way too concerned about age and end up miserable because their narrow parameters have not been met.

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Question 5...Wednesday

That’s happened several times.
The last good one was visiting a friend. A split second decision changed everything.
Although the consequences right now are awful, there was a long time with promise and hope. So it brought with it many of the best moments of my life, so I don’t regret it.

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I don’t want to be angry.

You learn and grow from everything.
Understanding comes at a price and part of that is pain.
To avoid it means you stop growing. Seems good in the moment, but is not good long term.

You don’t need be in faulty relations. Just take the lessons and move on to the next. In time it gets easier to know where you’re time is worth spending. Also need to recognize your self worth and take responsibility for your journey through life.

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Question number 3 guys...(missed yesterday)

my heart spoke to me and less when my head did..

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Question number 2, guys...as said in a post yesterday...

Life experience and understanding.

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