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Hey, I'm here, glad to see the place is back to some form of normal.

PepperJ wrote:

Prttytrisha wrote:
I'm here now too, no one invited me to the party!

Welcome! And just let yourself in the door. Party is ongoing ;)

Bawhahahaha๐Ÿ˜ˆ
It never ends!

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I am making this post in memory of Tord Martell who passed away around 2 years ago.

Silverset wrote:
Trying to add a photo not sure how to do it

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(But in one continuous line.)

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Has anyone seen my lost dog?

soco wrote:
Anybody have a bone to try and bribe him with?

Or maybe some strippers and a night on the town?

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Has anyone seen my lost dog?

I've been waiting for your darn dog to blink his eyes...but now...my eyes are glued open!

Yeah, I remember Little Nick. I 'got' his dark humor even if it spun others. It would be nice to have him back.

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Hey, I'm here, glad to see the place is back to some form of normal.

Just a remark of welcome passing through.

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Will 2017 be remembered for the empowered women coming out of the shadows of abuse?

@Aria
You've been through quite a lot and frankly it's a miracle you have retained the sense to see just where you're at - so many others don't.
There's always going to be the echos of aftermath and ponderings of the future (in some cases, the next minute).
The box of Pandora is ajar with regard to the original content of the post and your experience(s).
I must digress for the respect of all because my own issues are completely unrelated, yet...for what my two cents is worth...there it is.
Please drop a shout of you'd like to talk.
My time has come.
-BA1-

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Will 2017 be remembered for the empowered women coming out of the shadows of abuse?

Aria wrote:
Sometimes I blame the people who did it to me for having to face/heal from it. Sometimes, I'll blame it on myself for not being strong enough at the time to stop it. I sometimes go through at least a dozen scenarios of how it could have been avoided, but it will never make a difference now. Which is why I became cautious for the present and future. Thinking of all the scenarios that could happen.

It's only right to blame the person for the damages - because they were the ones who caused it...but they aren't going to be the ones responsible for your healing(how can they?)
This isn't a question - how is it that women/girls do to themselves worse than what was done to them? Part of me does not fathom, other parts of me do. Another part of me wants to yell out - "Stop making the perp look good!"
The best revenge is to live well - better yet, as if nothing happened at all - you need all your sails working to navigate properly. The stars are yours.

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Will 2017 be remembered for the empowered women coming out of the shadows of abuse?

soco wrote:
And then by the same token women would just learn to accept this behavior without feeling the need to self harm or over eat to make themselves uglier on purpose. You think that also?

Men are accountable for their bad behavior. From the slightest infraction to the most horrific. For their doings the lose their reputation. They lose their family. They lose their wealth. They lose their homes, vehicles and 'toys.' They lose body parts; eyes, hands, noses, *********testicles, their crock. They lose years of their life in prison' comparable or exceedent to killers and murderers.
For what men do to others, they pay....
What you do to your own self? That's your business. No one - and I mean no one - is accountable for how you treat yourself. You can love yourself and heal in far more ways than remain in perpetual mourning.

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Post Closed Post Closed

***Xxx

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Will 2017 be remembered for the empowered women coming out of the shadows of abuse?

soco wrote:
Are you saying that children are born wanting to molest other children???

[https://youtu.be/rdoGUtWGgtE]

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