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Do men care what women wear when they approach women?

I usually wear loose clothing for work. I like to dress modestly and one staff at work was respectful but expressed he wanted to pursue me. I was wondering do men actually care about how women dress if they approach you?

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Do men care what women wear when they approach women?ยฌ ยฌ I usually wear loose jumpersclothing for work and fitted trousers. I like to dress modestly and one staff at work was respectful but expressed he wanted to pursue me. I was wondering do men actually care about how women dress if they approach you?

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Generally speaking, no.
Men don't care what women wear when they approach them.

Now, with that said, let's examine the particulars with your question.

Here's the trouble, when a man approaches a woman, it was predetermined before he began to walk over to the woman.... Think about that for a minute.....

There ARE men who do care what a woman wears but even then, there is more to determine than just the fabric a woman wears.

Personally, I find the most approachable women are those who wear nothing at all.

I guess I'm just your typical MSP.

Hope this helps.

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women dont have to do anything.. they just wait for them to come..

more skin might ramp up the momentum tho. Too classy sassy might come off as a gold digger. um frumpy.. might strike up a simple conversation. list can go on. i once met a girl with red kicks and flannel shirt.. but thats another story.

now as for me its all about the personality that really attracts, if ur bubbly and fun.. some might call it slutty but whatever.. fun is what I like. i dont care what they wear. but yea some physical aspects will also apply - i use personality as a priority.

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Men dont care what job she has. What cloths she wears.
All a women has to do to be in a relationship is to be a women.
Having said that you will be narrowing your available men if you have tatoos.

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I'm not sure if I understand the question here. But if your asking if dressing scantily will entice men to approach, the short answer is yes. The long answer if you are dressing to attract men you should decide what sort of man you are trying to attract. And for what you are trying to attract them for.

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Slash wrote:
Generally speaking, no.
Men don't care what women wear when they approach them.

Now, with that said, let's examine the particulars with your question.

Here's the trouble, when a man approaches a woman, it was predetermined before he began to walk over to the woman.... Think about that for a minute.....

There ARE men who do care what a woman wears but even then, there is more to determine than just the fabric a woman wears.

Personally, I find the most approachable women are those who wear nothing at all.

I guess I'm just your typical MSP.

Hope this helps.

This really help you know!!! I also overthink things and I always wonder why would you approach me but it is something I'm working on. You will never see me express my insecurities. I just have inner thoughts about myself which everyone does. Thanks for your response.

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Yorick wrote:
women dont have to do anything.. they just wait for them to come..

more skin might ramp up the momentum tho. Too classy sassy might come off as a gold digger. um frumpy.. might strike up a simple conversation. list can go on. i once met a girl with red kicks and flannel shirt.. but thats another story.

now as for me its all about the personality that really attracts, if ur bubbly and fun.. some might call it slutty but whatever.. fun is what I like. i dont care what they wear. but yea some physical aspects will also apply - i use personality as a priority.

Oh ok that's make sense! Thanks for your comment; it's very helpful

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aeolians.revenge wrote:
Men dont care what job she has. What cloths she wears.
All a women has to do to be in a relationship is to be a women.
Having said that you will be narrowing your available men if you have tatoos.

I don't have tattoos.
Thank you for your response

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Lano wrote:
I'm not sure if I understand the question here. But if your asking if dressing scantily will entice men to approach, the short answer is yes. The long answer if you are dressing to attract men you should decide what sort of man you are trying to attract. And for what you are trying to attract them for.

Sorry if my questions wasn't clear.
I wanted to know if men actually care what you wear because I don't wear tight clothing. From what you guys are saying and from growing as a person. The person will love you the way you are. I always told that you will never find someone because I'm too quiet and I don't dress like the other females.

I hope that makes sense?

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Yes it makes sense.

The quiet thing is probably holding you back more than the clothes thing. Though wearing something crazy can be a conversation starter

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Lano wrote:
Yes it makes sense.

The quiet thing is probably holding you back more than the clothes thing. Though wearing something crazy can be a conversation starter

Thank you! Yeah I think so too but it has been beneficial as he has helped me realise who actually care and the ones that are not in it for the long run.

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This really help you know!!! I also overthink things and I always wonder why would you approach me but it is something I'm working on. You will never see me express my insecurities. I just have inner thoughts about myself which everyone does. Thanks for your response.

For me, I'm looking at HOW you are (regardless of what you wear). And, it's okay to express your insecurities (even though you may think it makes you weak), but in all truth a guy is waiting for the chance to feel strong. Like he matters.

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We brought a young lady into our home a few months ago. I love her. But she dresses very provacatively.

She's had ***sex with numerous people. She used to spend some time wondering why guys only wanted her for one thing....

IDK if it's all her clothes, though:
1. She is beautiful
2. She is bubbly and funny
3. She is hurt and fragile (I think "Certain types of guys" pick up on that)

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Am I asking a question?

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aeolians.revenge wrote:
Men dont care what job she has. What cloths she wears.
All a women has to do to be in a relationship is to be a women.
Having said that you will be narrowing your available men if you have tatoos.

Really?

Tattoos only? Or weird piercings and crazy dyed hair also?

Help me with:

Am I asking a question?

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Anonymous Poster wrote:
This really help you know!!! I also overthink things and I always wonder why would you approach me but it is something I'm working on. You will never see me express my insecurities. I just have inner thoughts about myself which everyone does. Thanks for your response.

For me, I'm looking at HOW you are (regardless of what you wear). And, it's okay to express your insecurities (even though you may think it makes you weak), but in all truth a guy is waiting for the chance to feel strong. Like he matters.

Thank you and i appreciate your help and response

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PepperJ wrote:
We brought a young lady into our home a few months ago. I love her. But she dresses very provacatively.

She's had ***sex with numerous people. She used to spend some time wondering why guys only wanted her for one thing....

IDK if it's all her clothes, though:
1. She is beautiful
2. She is bubbly and funny
3. She is hurt and fragile (I think "Certain types of guys" pick up on that)

It's so true what you're saying. Thanks again for the response

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PepperJ wrote:

aeolians.revenge wrote:
Men dont care what job she has. What cloths she wears.
All a women has to do to be in a relationship is to be a women.
Having said that you will be narrowing your available men if you have tatoos.

Really?

Tattoos only? Or weird piercings and crazy dyed hair also?

I have none that you have mentioned

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Thanks for all the support. I am going to end the post and it has been great to see how open everyone is. It is truly a blessing....

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