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I lost my friend.

Everytime I think about it , it hurts. I wish I could go back in time to fix it but I can't. I have no one to talk to about it. The only mutual friend of her and mine is too hurt to talking about it. He has shut himself up. I dont know what to do.

I used to think of her and see a ray of sunshine and now when I think of her my heart aches.

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I'm sorry to hear that. I've kinda felt the same about a certain friend once. I don't really talk to that person anymore. It got better eventually but at the time it felt very sad and made me quite depressed.

It's not much of advice but the only thing I can offer is that all pain is temporary and if you two aren't able to make it back to being friends, you'll eventually feel better about it. But I wish you luck in patching things up.

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Thank you for your reply! I'm sorry about your friend too I hope you and this friend will talk again.

And sorry I wasn't being clear, my friend actually passed away, I wish I talked to her more but I got so busy with my job...

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Hang it there...It can be so difficult losing someone...remember the good times. Take your time to heal also. The pain will still be there as years go by; you will learn how to manage it. Keep talking to people you are close too so that you're not alone with your thoughts.

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Helper wrote:
I dont know what to do.

That sentence to me is telling. And I have the answer. You DO what you can. Everything in your soul and being you DO what you can. Tell your story. Tell of your pain. Tell of your hurt. Now it may not go completely back to the way it was. But you will know in your heart of hearts that you did everything that is within you to heal their heart. I promise it will heal yours.

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