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The other contract just says if the cat is ever not wanted and needing to be rehomed the breeder gets him back.
She didnt fo a good job on her contract. It's very amateur. Just some bullet pointed sentences.
My kitten contract is far more intense. 3 or 4 pages๐Ÿ˜
This contract is very simple. Basically it just describes the cat, what we are agreeing to and most importantly. When my cat is to be returned
As well as all her information and mine.

Her contract contains no limitations on ********breeding rights.


Trust me, I know what I'm doing and it's for the right reasons.
This isnt mu first rodeo. I was born into this and it's my passion.

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Yอคอญอฅฬ‡eti. wrote:
Those are the sort of persuasion techniques I was referring to.
I don't think her interest alone would suffice to justify risking what you hold most dear, or "heart" should we permit such a hackneyed term.
Over the course of your life, people have repeatedly betrayed your trust. I'd imagine such treatment leaves its mark. Breaching a circle of distrust may be a worthy cause. Notwithstanding, this is subjectively a high stake situation for trial, objectively perhaps a relatively rare opportunity. You have to be below a certain level of anxiety with your decision.

I don't suppose you'd be comfortable staying with her for those couple days, would you?

I will be anxious. But hopefully my leap of faith will not come back to hurt me

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None the less I typed up a legally binding contract.

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I wanna say Yes for her sake. If she is friendly and true to her word. Then I'll have no problem. I will be okay if he was gone a couple days. I've been gone from him longer thrn that

My fear is what if she doesnt return him or something.
And shes never been like that. It's just I dont wanna lose him for forever or a month time cause I was stupid and trusted someone with something so precious

I wanna say yes for her and no for me. So I don't know what I'll decide
I'm just so afraid.
If she is true to her word I dont have a problem
But I cant be sure of that

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Luckily she was really understanding. I told her I dont really wanna stud him to other breeders
And she said if that's my choice she respects that. She asked me to consider letting her take him for 2 and a half days. Just till Friday.
Just in hopes he will get her female pregnant so she can save a baby and use that baby to continue her line.
And I understand that as my grandmothers line was very important to her.
She told me to sleep on it and no pressure if o decide not to.
I feel much better that she is being understanding and wont ve mad if I say no.

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Well. I guess your right. I'm just so afraid of a negative response
I almost want to send it and shut my phone off and then hide afraid of her response

I just hope shes understanding. I only want him to father MY cats kittens
Hes not a stud for sale. Hes on the website so others potentially getting a kitten can see the father

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She can always adopt one my his kittens from me.

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I just don't want to make her angry

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BIG-AL-ONE wrote:
Offer to board her female until conception is certain.

She won't go for it ๐Ÿ˜
Honestly I only want Albert to be bred to MY cats. But I always said I'd be open to Albert's breeder because she is good to her cats and takes proper care of them.
But I dont want him going anywhere and truthfully I dont really want anybody else to have his babies. I like to be in control of the situation. ๐Ÿ˜•

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