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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

Guys that want to play around on the first date only want to satisfy their own wants. They see your outside beauty. They have no desire to learn how beautiful you are on the inside. If you stay with this new guy you will be hurt again. Guys like that are like light bulbs. They will see other women as conquests even while holding your hand. Don't fall for it.

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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

You have not lost everyone and are far from alone.

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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

Drop the new guy ASAP. What he wants is obvious and that is not what you want. 2 different sets of goals. Tell him bye bye.

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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

You are not alone by the way in how you feel. Thousands of girls and women have similar feelings. And that's okay. Even though you cannot erase the past, we can diminish the hurt you are placing on yourself.

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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

Regarding your 1st boyfriend, how long was that relationship? Did you not have sexual relations (a la Bill clinton) with him?
The time you gave up your virginity, how long had it been since the breakup?

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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

By pressured do you mean against your will?

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I have a list of the guys I’ve slept with and some I don’t even remember.

Do any of those men regret sleeping with you?

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Question of the day:

“We can’t keep waiting for a solution to come from the government.”

 Williams said she hoped that her keynote address, “Community Based Solutions to the Issue of Violence,” would leave the community fired up to make changes — changes that she has seen work firsthand.

“Start with the women and follow them because when you give women a voice great things happen,” she said. “I’m not sexist in any way — sexism is another form of violence and there are many great men in this world. I’m taking my Daddy’s advice because he always told me that women think first with their hearts, and then their heads. After that, he said, ‘You’d better step out of their way.’”

Gang violence can be stopped, Williams said, but not from afar. Getting close to those involved in violence is an important component in promoting peace. She told the story of John Irwin, an 18-year-old IRA member who walked into her office in 1976 intending to kill her.

“I saw his gun, and I saw that his hand was shaking,” Williams recalled. “So I jumped up and hit his hand. The gun went flying and he was stunned.”

Williams shoved the young man into a chair and told him she was not going to call the police.

“But I told him I was keeping his gun,” Williams said. “Then, I started seeing him hanging around the building. One day, he came in and I made him a cup of tea.”

Williams discovered that Irwin was so impressed with her courage that he was starting to think more and more about peace.

“He mistook my adrenaline for bravery,” she said. “We became very close and developed a mother-son kind of bond. And John Irwin became one of the greatest peace workers in Northern Ireland.”

By Betty Williams

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is this a real life?

Men in white coats. Your seven o'clock.

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One question a day...

I'm doing it...

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