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I think my ex is engaged and I wish it didn’t hurt me.

This was the kick in my butt that I needed. My way of coping these last few weeks was having the delusional thought that they weren’t engaged and that he still loves me and would one day come back to me. I know it was an unhealthy fantasy but it made me feel better. Now that is shattered and I need to stop stalking them on social media and accept that is was not meant to be and pull my ****shit together. I’m starting in baby steps by blocking them so I physically can’t see what they post

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I think my ex is engaged and I wish it didn’t hurt me.

It’s official he is engaged and I don’t think I’ve ever felt more broken

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

It was a different guy but all is okay. I think I need more time to myself before I try and date again.

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

Update- new date canceled 🤦🏻‍♀️

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

So for some dumb reason I made a date tonight with a different guy and we are going to a restaurant. I already agreed to it but I’m nervous and don’t want to go

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

Date canceled -he just admitted he wanted to only have ***sex with me.

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

💀B.A.1.💀 wrote:

Manthy wrote:
- hell I would personally cancel, because I’d be uncomfortable around a pushy guy.

I tend to agree with you Manthy.


I would make a few things clear -
First: "I'm not one of your 'buddies,' - I'm a lady and I expect that to be respected and treated that way, not hounded to hang out at some dog's smash pad."

Secondly, "If I wanted to see the movie for the sake of the movie, I can easily watch it by myself. If you can't handle a simple date, then don't waste my time."

Thirdly: "I want a man, not a whiney, hormonal boy-child who wants to push his way on me."

Fourthly: "I'll give you some time to think about it a$$ho!e - but you don't have forever, so call me when you've pulled your head outta yer a$$ and zipped your fly."

Then hang up.

I love all of these options 😂. He responded to my suggestion with yea, I guess. Things shouldn’t be this difficult so soon.

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

Manthy wrote:
My fiancé and I even struggle with ‘dates’ - we can never choose a place to go or thing to do. But we have some things planned.

I really want to do an escape room, don’t know if you’ve heard of it, they have one in Naperville.
You get locked in a room with other players (of your choosing or not) to solve a mystery and find the key to ‘escape’ - you get let out once the time is up but you’re left clues to figure it out. I so badly want to do this, and I want to make a group to invite, so that I’m not in a room with total strangers. If you want to join when we go, let us know and you could always bring someone with! 🙂
We’re also planning a trip to a farm animal sanctuary, where there are rescued animals you get to interact with. There are only 3 sanctuaries in Illinois but they’re all so far apart.

He is actually from Naperville so if things work out lol

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

I suggested mini golf but I think if he still pressures me to go to his place I’m going to cancel. It just is discouraging when you try and get back on the horse and you fall back off again

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

Thank guys. He’s accusing me of only wanted to see the movie and not actually go out with him. Which is not true, if I didn’t want to get to know him I would go see the movie by myself. Since he doesn’t seem interested in the movie I’m trying to think of something else to do that we would be able to get to know eachother more but idk if he’ll go for it

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