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What bits of wisdom has life taught you?

money does not equal happiness

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For those of you on mental health medication...

Try taking a vitamin D supplement in the morning in addition to your medication.

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@Araz thank you for your response. Everything you said is 100% correct and it is nice to know you understand. Your advise was helpful <3

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You say tried so I take it you thwarted his attempt. Can you say how? Did you duck out of the way or try to rearrange his *********testicles to behind his tonsils?

It was simple, he leaned in and I turned my head away. After that we continued talking like normal but he was feeling up my leg.

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I forgot to mention that the most recent encounter was at a work outing where everyone had a little too much to drink.

I am working on not over sharing but I slipped up bc of the alcohol. Part of me thinks I lead guys on which is why I have it coming. But the other part of me thinks that a 43 year old coworker should not have tried to kiss me.

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I feel like a reject right now.

“I haven’t failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Thomas Edison

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I feel like a reject right now.

Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.

What I’ve learned is this: All of them have had doubters. Some continue to have roaring, stadium-sized collections of critics and naysayers who will shout ‘I told you so’ at every little misstep or mistake. The noise doesn’t go away, but the most successful people I know have figured out how to live with it.”

-Michelle Obama

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I am posed with a conundrum.

Nurture over nature. Genetics are irrelevant because you still treat the issues the same way. I work with 80lb pit bulls that are labels “genetically aggressive” who are friendlier than the 15lb Designer labradoodle.

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I am posed with a conundrum.

I work with dogs with major behavioral issues.

1. DONT NOT PUT THE DOG DOWN
- if you decide their behavior is too overwhelming bring them to a no kill animal shelter

2. You dog needs more structure. Acting out can be a sign of boredom. Get her puzzle toys to stimulate their mind. Take her on long walks or runs.

3. Positive reinforcements. If your dog is being nipppy say no and then give her something appropriate she can bite like a toy.

4. If she is not spayed get her spayed. This can be a big part of a dog’s behavioral issues

5. Take her to training.

There are a bunch of things you can do. Let me know if you need any more advice.

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What does it mean if a girl starts acting different around you?

I often to this if the person said something offensive to me. Pull her aside and ask if everything is okay with her. If she is upset she’ll tell you.

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