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Ok.

His account seems to say it is! Unsure what happened though, sorry!

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Hey guys, bit of help needed (pretty UK centric though)

Thank you Puddin, that's really helpful. I didn't realise you could self refer, I'll definitely look into it. And thank you for the understanding, I hope you find a doctor you can open up to again!

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Hey guys, bit of help needed (pretty UK centric though)

Its more GPs in general, I struggle with asking for help and tend to go to the doctor only when frogmarched. Last time I had a chest infection so bad I was getting miniscule amounts of oxygen compared to what I was supposed to... It might sound stupid but me being ill/not normal was such a huge hassle for people when I was younger that I always feel I'm time wasting and theres nothing that wrong with me

Maybe I'll just make a bullet point list and take that with me when I manage to schedule something!

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Hey guys, bit of help needed (pretty UK centric though)

Do you think they'll do it just on me asking for the referal?

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

God I completely understand where you are coming from, just make sure you take care of your own mental health and be aware it might be messy if/when you do need to kick him out.

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

ProffVampy wrote:
Thank you amber, i know and this is why i tought it right to raise it with people and get some opinions. im sure mine will be slightly biased as always with these situations but i try not to be. good adivice though, but i know ive gone against that many times and very much got burned which i suppose is another reason im able to see it happening this time

I've been there too, which is why I've found it such good advice. I was burnt by so many different people, and burned myself out trying to help people who wouldn't help themselves that learning I need to put myself first was a massive thing. Honestly from the way you are talking I'm sure in your heart of hearts and head of heads you know what you think you should do, we're all here to support you.

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Theres nothing I can say different than what everyone else said, other than the best advice I have ever received. "Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm".

Look after yourself first, you should love and show yourself the priority that you would show someone else. After 4 months, this many red flags should be a sign of things to come.

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Okay Jebus, just for you, I came back.

Hi Nyx, good to see you back!

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As it turns out I need some advice :)

Hey good for you! I'm stoked for you ๐Ÿ˜„

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So what has everyone been up to lately?

Rockster160 wrote:

Sounds busy! So much can happen in 10 years!

I'm always busy... still if I'm busy I don't have time to think too much!! It's been a good 10 years for me, I'm finally (mostlysorta)comfortable in my skin.

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