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You ever meet someone and the instant you meet you feel some sort of connection or strong attraction to them?

I work as an Independent Contractor a lot around my town. The past two days I have been working this event. My first day the men in charge came up and introduce themselves to me. The moment I met the one guy, I immediately felt something. Idk what you call it. I don’t know if it was just strong attraction or some sort of connection. I’m not sure. I kinda wonder if he felt it because I noticed that he kept coming up to the table I was sitting at. Sometimes he would be talkative and sometimes he would just stand there. lol. Sometimes I couldn’t read his behavior and he seemed a little distant. Well, yesterday was my last day. I noticed he kept coming up and he would either rub my shoulder, fist bump me, or give me a high five. But when he gave me a high five he grabbed my hand and held my hand for a few seconds before walking away. Yesterday when I left I told him it was nice working with him and he came up and gave me a hug. But that was it. Idk I just feel weird about this because I don’t understand completely what was going on. lol. But every time he came around I would feel something and he would always make strong eye contact with me. I don’t know if he didn’t say more since technically he was my boss.

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Hmm I would be weirded out by someone I just met being so touchy with me, but I do think instant connections are real and can lead to great things!

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Sorry. I never felt gay before and I doubt I ever will.

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Not really sure what that has to do with anything.

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Did you guys exchange contact information?

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No. I wanted to. But at the same time I thought it was a little weird since he was my boss. I told him it was nice working with him and he came up and hugged me bye.

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No. I wanted to. But at the same time I thought it was a little weird since he was my boss. I told him it was nice working with him and he came up and hugged me bye.

Aww well who knows, you might run into him again if you’re in a small enough town

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You said bye. Now he's not your boss right? If you can find a way to contact him you will see where it leads. The question is whether thats something you want.

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I just wanted to say that we are now following one another on social media. :)

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I just wanted to say that we are now following one another on social media. :)

That’s AWESOME!!!

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I have had that in a real big way twice in my life and both times it didnt go anywhere.

I would just say just because an attraction is both intense and instantaneous doesnt mean its fate.

In principle, there is no harm in seeing where things go, but i will just take the sober position here and advise you not let yourself get caught up too much in it.

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