Truth: No matter how hard you try you cannot control how others think. No drug or elixir will ever change that.

So stop worrying about what others think. Just be you. Full stop. You are the only person on the entire planet that can be you. So screw what anybody else thinks. Hold your head high. Maybe stick out your chest a little. Look them square in the eye. And smile as you say to yourself, "you mean s*÷% to me!"

Are you married ptp?

Whatever
Soco nailed it.
Own it.
No onw wants an argument from you.
They are helping you.
Are you a mind reader?
Humans are complex.
Amen.
Also I may be wrong here but I suspect you are trying to look trans and want valadation.

long ago someone once told me " if you care about what other people think, ur ******fucked "

teenagers grow into this .. awareness phase.. being self-conscious all the time and then the anxiety creeps in and the hive mind develops.. where you're either with the majority or cast aside.

Is some guy at your job trying to come on to you? Is that what this is about?

Do you think it's possible that you may be exhibiting signs that you are not aware of?
There seems to be a lot of uncertainty going on. For example, given the thought of being trans is something you are unsure of. In and of itself there's nothing wrong with that. But, another example can also go to this effect;

First, a group of people might actually share the experience of your characteristics with a clarity that you may not fully see.
Secondly, there seems to be a lot of thinking going on without really knowing. Have you asked any of those folks what they thought?
Thirdly, what you think other people are thinking is much different than what they're actually thinking. Paranoia serves up two versions of the same person, one fake, the other one real.

I the thing is you are right, people should mind their own business, but the fact you posted you are about being concerned you are a trans or other people think you are says you either are trolling, or really think you might be different and need help, but in the end who really gives a fork what people think fork them right?

Stop wearing eye liner, mascara, lipstick, and/or fingernail polish. The questions of what you are will stop, I promise.

Do you have a high pitched voice? Some guys do; nothing against it.

Ok. You just cited one example where you yourself could not tell the difference on one occasion. Yet you want to go all ballistic on others when they make the same error to you. You can't have it both ways!

But it bothers you. If it didn't you would not have posted about it. Agree?

No. Some people are blind or have very low vision. Or perhaps it's a canine named Kat. So no I wouldn't think much about it to be honest.

You want to mess with a friends head? Get a pet feline and name him Dogg!

Im a soprano singer and can sing higher notes than women can.
You guys dont want to listen to my music so you will have to take my word for it.
I dont give a rats ***ass if someone thought I was trans

Our memory relies on mostly what we see. Not so much with hearing.
With that said, "tone" is locked into anything that makes sound.

Pay attention.

The key furthist on the left of the piano will have the deepest sound.
Think strong male.
As you ascend to the right, key by key, the pitch climbs higher and higher.
At this point you may be thinking you are heading into (more or less) female territory, yes but consider the following; nature has produced male's with a range of characteristics from strong to weak.
So, as you go higher to the right of the piano keys, the "weaker" the male characteristics.

But, if you started totally on the right side of the piano, you begin with (and no insult intended), the tone of a common female.
Referring back to what nature produces, there have been plenty of "strong women" with voices you could not tell apart from that of a man. This becomes more obvious as you move back to the left on the the keys.

The sound that something makes is as only good as it is heard. The most important part when it comes to the components of hearing is an organ called the cochli. Or "the snail." It's arranged a lot like the strings of a piano - from very short strings to very long strings.
A very gentle sound will not affect the long string but may not the shortest ones either. There is a middle ground to which these strings become sensitive to incoming sound and there are tens of thousands of them. Without so many, we would not experience the quality of sound the way we do.
Every one of those strings in this case has a nerve attached to it and the gathering of the nerves is called, the "auditory nerve."

This concludes the science lesson for the day. I had to come up with some sort of understanding why I thought the morning television reporter was a female until I actually looked at the T.V. and saw it was a dude the entire time.

I am a soprano in singing.
That is a higher range than most women.
It wasnt natural and took years to achieve.
However without the lower notes its impact is less important.
In fact quite annoying.
My point is maybe you are subconsciously tryinig to achieve a ***sex that you are attracted to being the lower notes and know all too well the impact it has being female.
I think if you came to terms with this truth you will know its you who wants valadation not just as a female but as a human.
When you realise that the lower notes are just as important as the higher notes.
Todays culture stopped giving anything low or male the credit it rightfully deserves.

Sorry it went over your head.
It qas a much deeoer response than Your premise that "I think people think Im trans"
I tried to open your eyes to a deeper reasoning why you would ask such a question to begin with.

Let people think what they want. They will do anyway. What you think about you is all that matters. U cant control what others think. U can only control urself

Exactly what I said in the beginning.

@soco what i did back at school for a time was just agree with each insult. If someone said youre a freak I'd smile and say i know i am. It tends to confuse people lol

Just a question. How do those people views trans people?

You didn't pay attention.
And I don't think I made it too complicated.

I'll try to make this easier.
Everyone of us has heard that one voice on the radio or phone that we mistakenly thought was either a guy or a gal - but it turned out to be the other.

Unlike the distant past, we live in an age where we are more likely to assume that someone is trans based on the way they sound.

Listen to this dude sing -

https://youtu.be/aPEhQugz-Ew

Sorry Slash... Mariska Veres was born a female and died a female.

That's my point. I've listened to this song for decades, over the radio. I always thought it was a guy who sang that song because she really does command a guy's voice.

Let's move closer to what I was originally taking about. Tell me, after listening to Kim Carnes "Bette Davis Eyes" are you really going to think that Nick Gilder has a dude's voice?
And by the way, a "nick" is a type of cut and gildings are horses that have been castrated. Look carefully at what this person's wearing. Is that a blouse?!
Let's talk trans.....

https://youtu.be/6s2zm_crkVc

Vocals in the transgender area is a technique. Its not any gender vouce because once you reach soprano and head voice its pretty hard to hear male or female.
Once you are in falsetto its anybodys guess.
On top of that singers refine their voices to sound smooth at that range. Its almost impossible to have vocal fry at notes in the soprano range or risk losing your voice permenently.
So there was a fad in the 60s 70s 80s for males to hit very high notes.
Steve perry was the master of high notes however he did something unique.
He was able to mix the bass in his voice to balance out the high notes so it didnt sound micky mousey.
I guess thats why I originally wrote about singers. Scroll up.
Without the full balance your just toying with genderism and I suspect most trans gender people play up the opposite of what they were born to sound like.
Its fake

Okay. Any females out there that sound like James Earl Jones? Aka Musafa?

I think you can always tell when someone singing on the radio is black. They got better singing voices. N can always tell when they're white.

I think the radio is one of the first places that we get tricked into believing an artist is black (or not).

https://youtu.be/PJwt2dxx9yg

https://youtu.be/cjqOsYRQI0o

https://youtu.be/C8Y0SZrPdX0