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I am a 34 year old female who is falling for her Trainer at her gym. The thing is, I found his social media and I think he’s 27 or 28. And I like him but now that I found his age, I’m kinda bummed because I’m like 6-7 years older than him. I thought he was closer to my age. But no. He’s so handsome and charming. What do I do? I feel like if I keep training with him I’m just going to develop more feelings for him but I really like him as a trainer. He’s helped me a lot. Not only helping me get stronger but he’s helped a lot to motivate me and to help me believe I can do things I thought I couldn’t. Any advice?

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What do I do? I am a 34 year old female who is falling for her Trainer at her gym. The thing is, I found his social media and I think he’s 27 or 28. And I like him but now that I found his age, I’m kinda bummed because I’m like 6-7 years older than him. I thought he was closer to my gym. The thing is, I found his social media and I think he’s 27 or 28. And I like him but now that I found his age, I’m kinda bummed because I’m like 6-7 years older than him. I thought he was closer to my age. But no. He’s so handsome and charming. What do I do? I feel like if I keep training with him I’m just going to develop more feelings for him but I really like him as a trainer. He’s helped me a lot. Not only helping me get stronger but he’s helped a lot to motivate me and to help me believe I can do things I thought I couldn’t. Any advice?

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I don't think 6-7 years is really that much of a difference. On the other hand, based on what your saying, it sounds like this is more of a physical thing than a love thing. Why not fool around with him?

I would get a different trainer though, for sure.

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I'm only going to say this;
I think men have more experience when it come to younger women AND getting "shot down."

Just so you know, I hope the best for you. Good luck.

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I say go for it.

Age is just a number; and the years you have in difference are not that great

My bff married a guy 7 years younger than her. I think they have been married 16 years now...? Maybe 17

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We had another post of similar nature. It was from a female that started having feelings for the male veterinarian she took her pet to. Was that you...?

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No, that’s not me. I guess I’m not the only one then.

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Anonymous wrote:
No, that’s not me. I guess I’m not the only one then.

I found the post I was referring to. Even though it is not you i think you will find the responses we left for her may help answer some questions for you. It may even help to write down in your own words the advice that is useful. Bring it with you and refer to it often.

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The one thing I would caution you about. Many people with a professional relationship with a client prefer not to mix business with pleasure. If you are successful in wooing him into a romantic relationship you may have to find a different personal trainer. Are you prepared for that possibility?

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