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i just quit this site.

just now. when this post(https://help-qa.com/posts/1647-ugh-i-m-going-to... went nsfw i'm done here. "f word" this stupid website. This is SO STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i'll find my help somewhere where there aren't so many child like minds around. some place more adult i guess. this site has become so pathetic i can't even talk here.

bye all of you.

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Lano
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I don't know if your the same person who was complaining about this a few weeks ago, but I'll say what I said then: You're really getting worked up over the fact that maybe three people of the twenty who will view this site in a given week won't see your post.

Trust me. The people who you would want to be responding to your post are gonna see it.

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Lano wrote:
I don't know if your the same person who was complaining about this a few weeks ago, but I'll say what I said then: You're really getting worked up over the fact that maybe three people of the twenty who will view this site in a given week won't see your post.

Trust me. The people who you would want to be responding to your post are gonna see it.

Yup. I guess I needed some reinforcement of that particular point you just made....again. LOL

I didn't remember. Thanks. Again. LOL

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I see your post just fine. What's the issue?

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You ate creating your own reality.

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aeolians.revenge wrote:
You ate creating your own reality.

your reply made me want to respond, very much in general though:

My own reality sucks. Granted it's not the worst ever out of all of humanity by far. But if what you say were true I would certainly be creating a different reality right away!

I've tried standing up and announcing enough is enough. I've seriously considered the whole law of attraction crap and a plethora of other tactics and strategies.....

I'm tired of it all being so metaphorical. You folks that believe in magic throw quotes around like "When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen" and "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." These are sweet quotes. They really are, but they don't really change or effect anything. They are not a road map to success just a potential motivation and I will always need more than someone's words to motivate me to my fullest. I need people to be up front, cut to the bottom line and stop bullshitting that's all. Be on the same page concerning what's in it for me and what's in it for you. All this other esoteric ****shit can go to hell.

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DragonLady wrote:
I see your post just fine. What's the issue?

When I signed up again to the site after it came back, I remember having to check a box in settings that allowed me to view nsfw posts. I don't know that everyone here is doing that or even looked at their settings to see if they're getting all posts including nsfw posts.

So I try not to create posts that are categorized by the site as nsfw because I want everyone to see the posts. But no matter how hard I try, they're usually categorized as nsfw!

Lano says a small small percentage of folks on the site would have it filtered out of view and the majority of members and visitors can in fact see them. I hope that's true. But all I can go on is what you guys can tell me.

I don't really know how you know that, or I feel like I would be able to confirm it myself.
It's hard to make non-nsfw posts (maybe i'm just a belligerent a-hole and can't help it i guess) and hard for me to just assume folks set their settings up to view nsfw posts.

So occasionally the thought crosses my mind to go somewhere I can more openly post without being plagued by a filter I can't seem to get around here at help.


And when a lot of them go nsfw after I've posted them, I have to sit and wonder why. Because I tried so hard to keep it clean. It's just a really bothersome feature imo.

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DragonLady
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You say "I'm tired of it all being so metaphorical."

Why is it metaphorical? Is there something physically stopping you from standing up, taking a shower, putting on your favorite clothes, opening the door and walking 'til you reach a better life?

Sometimes, you have to take a deep breath, and just GO.... It takes courage and it takes a fair amount of no-longer-care-what-anyone-else-wants but if you're miserable where you are, then change it. No one can do that for you. The journey may be long or short, but you must take every step of it for yourself.

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when an anon quits the site.. not as quite demoralizing as .. a known member calling it quits.. so ..

as harsh as it sounds.. we'll miss you anon. safe and fortunate travels! :D

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I tried.

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As a former school counselor I am used to immature teens using f-bomb this and f-bomb that. They haven't learned how to express themselves any better. And when just about everything in your life causes you distress it is fair time to consider mature professional psychiatric therapy perhaps along with some coping skills. We are the mature adults in the room. We still are willing to help but you can't point to every living object and blame them for your lot in life.
If you decide to leave that is your choice. Probably not the last wrong decision you will ever make.

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We have another hurricane coming this way.

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Anonymous wrote:
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Well said.

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soco wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
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Well said.

No straight jacket required? ;)

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Anonymous wrote:

soco wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
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Well said.

No straight jacket required? ;)

Too many buckles and time consuming. 2 seconds - slap an octopus on their face. It will take over after that.

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soco wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

soco wrote:


[quote from Anonymous]

Well said.

No straight jacket required? ;)

Too many buckles and time consuming. 2 seconds - slap an octopus on their face. It will take over after that.

Lol!

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