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Awkward moments

I do. And people don't let it go until your dead.

A relative called once asking for my mom, but he is a bit quirky and was disguising his voice. So I didn't realize who it was. I asked him why he wanted to talk to her and I forgot exactly what he said but sounded shady af. So I went to take the phone to my mom and said loudly "Ma, some stupid idiot moron is on the phone asking for you." I was quite young and bear in mind that my mom had said similar things about telemarketers so I wasn't just namecalling for the fun of it.

So my relative heard me and got angry and told my mom but my mom thought it was hilarious so now it's a funny story we tell.


But at the time I felt bad about it.

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Awkward moments

snazzy suit

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Awkward moments

Araz wrote:
Well I guess I don't know how to embed pictures lol.

I think the @ sign is messing it up

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Operation baby blackbird

NacthoMan wrote:
so let me get this straight.. the Program was to spread misinformation?

lol

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I feel like I've lived long enough, that even new opportunities that should be exciting make me sad instead.

Anonymous wrote:
For the rest of you let me add some context. I was talking to someone who may have been a potential date. This happens all the time. I start talking to someone and getting through the 'getting to know you' phase of conversations when a sudden sadness hits me. I realize I've done this, multiple times in my past. Relationship after relationship, they all start out the same. Why keep doing this if it could just likely end up the same as well?

It is the same with anything. Take your job. For the last however many years you've been working there. It's the same thing day after day after day after day. Money comes in money goes out. Unless you're rich enough to have anything left over which is not the case for most Americans. While that's making effort to move life forward, is it really moving it forward? Seems stuck to me. Pointless and totally unrewarding. I got to go to work, bust my ***ass, to have nothing left over and stay right where I am.

And in case you're one to fall back on stupid stuff like 'go to school' well guess what? I did that too.

What do you do when everything seems like a crock? When it all seems like a game of psychology to get you to work for what everyone else wants and not doing what would benefit you best? Wage slaves are real!

Nothing works.


I'm not looking for a solution to every problem I know it doesn't exist. Especially here. But if anyone has ever felt this jaded or jipped because life seems a total crock, I'm very interested in hearing how you've been coping with it is all.

Everything we do seems like a repetitive mess. Regardless of what working class or education level we're in, or how long you've managed to keep your crap from falling apart. Some of us are stronger and better than others and that's okay.

But no matter who you are, you're probably going through more hassle than any reward so, how do you keep at it??

You may be a successful business person, owning your own business, and making money. But I bet it didn't start out that way. Weeks, months, years of failure before you showed a profit? How did you keep at it? What made you keep going? Why didn't you feel like you were beating a dead horse and wasting your life?


To the person here who has had 20 long term relationships and they all failed until the 21st, what made you keep going? How'd you feel like it wasn't a futile effort? A pointless game of numbers? Odds being against you are so high? What drives us to keep doing this same crazy crap over and over and over again?

They say the definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again expecting a different result. THAT'S ALL WE DO!!!!!!

Relationship failed? On to the next one!
Business failed? Open another one? o.O
Fall down lots? Pick yourself up and keep going, over and over and over again!

These are just a couple examples but we do this with EVERYTHING WE DO.


I feel like a rat in a maze. Like someone is out there watching over us wondering "how long are they going to keep up this futile behavior?"

Like it's an experiment. Someone else's experiment on us....

See, I kinda have the opposite view when I look back in life. I wish I tried and failed more. It would have made me a wiser and stronger person. And even today I struggle with this. I wish I found taking risks easier.

I think the key is make sure that, whatever it is that you are attempting, that you enjoy the process enough to not care if you fail. If you feel like your job is just a sea of meaningless and the money they give you as compensation isn't worth the trouble, you should get a different job.

Romance is tough but if you like being in a relationship, that's what you do.

Every person's relationship is full of embarrassing hiccups of "will they or won't they" which is part of why people love movies with that sort of plot so much.

No one wins all the time everytime. Unless you are that tigerblood guy.

Think of it as baseball. If you get a hit 30 percent of the time you come to bat in the Major leagues for 20 years, you'll be in the Hall of Fame more likely than not.

That means you had to get out 70 percent of the time....if you keep trying, you will get a hit when it matters.

Also something inspirational I've heard said by many people: The key to success is to fail early and often.

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Males perspective

soco wrote:
Guys hate, hate, hate, games.

I would put out that some guys really are about the games. Some men love drama as much as some women. I have known such types.


Women gots to be careful of them too.l

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Males perspective

I agree neither.

But instead of trying to get into the guy's head, I would suggest to you that your mental health will be a lot better if you realize that in some situations, like this one, understanding the other person's motivations may well be impossible.

Not all guys are the same, and, at least in this context, there could be a hundred different reasons why he might have behaved the way he did.

Just take a step back, breath, and move on. I'm sure you didn't hurt his feelings. You were being reasonable. Have faith in yourself. You did nothing wrong. You needed time. You weren't sure how to react. There will be other dudes out there who will be respectful of that. Love yourself.

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Im done..

So is Trump the exception to the rule? Why did he put Fauci and Birx on the Covid Response team? His Vice President, Pence is in charge of it. They have set guidelines for states on how to reopen.

If this makes any sense, he must be in cahoots with these NWO types, or not have enough "common sense" to realize what's going on.


I'm curious the type of mental ninjary one's brain will do to wash Trump clean of this.

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Im done..

In all seriousness, the claim about Bill Gates having a patent on COVID has appeared on this site before, and I debunked it. With evidence.

I'm not sure if aeolian missed it when I did that or is just knowingly spreading lies. I'll be charitable and assume he just wasn't paying attention to that. Sigh.

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Im done..

soco wrote:
Source? And please don't say Alex Jones or any fucktard at Fox.

Don't be silly, he wouldn't stoop so low as to use such unreliable sources.

I'm sure the source for this info is a facebook meme, or some random youtuber, which we all know are both always great sources of info.

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