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we seriously need to whore this place out, we need more members, lord...

BIG-AL-ONE wrote:
Okay....
....(okay)....
I just might have an idea - although it may p!$$ some people off.....
Hhmmmmmm......

Some candy....
And some spraypaint....
Yeah!

....I'll be back!

I really want to know what's going on here. ๐Ÿ˜„

Open to ideas! The simplest and easiest is obviously to pay for some Google/Facebook ads. Just costs money. ๐Ÿ˜…

The next is free, but takes a little more work- but it's "word of mouth". We can share the site on (relevant) forums - ones where people discuss self help or calls for help. Also psychology forums- those people are more capable/willing to offer help to those in need as well.

Long time users are the best, but we need more traffic. Traffic (new users coming and going constantly) = higher placements in search results, which means more likely that people "find" us by accident.

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tried to listen to the current alt.

https://help-qa.com/history/adult

You can filter to only see the adult ones. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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so.........

Highly unlikely youโ€™re being โ€œtargetedโ€.
There seems to be a certain type of person that likes loud vehicles. Those same people seem to enjoy starting the enjoy and revving it for all to hear. Maybe itโ€™s a call for attention maybe itโ€™s something else.

Regardless, most neighborhoods have noise ordinances. You could report it and the cops could show up, ask the guys to stop, and then move on. Likely will need to happen a few times.
If youโ€™re in a bigger city they may not be as much a noise ordinance enforced, but a call for complaint is still tracked and if it happens often enough theyโ€™re bound to do something eventually.

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Would you be hurt by this?

Maybe he was embarrassed and didnโ€™t want to come on too strong? Iโ€™ve been in a similar situation (being the guy) and I can definitely say there have been times where a lack of invitation was me not wanting to feel too out there.

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Profile change - help, please.

What aka section?

Whisper (Click to reveal)

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How do you post videos?

Youโ€™d need to upload to a video hosting site- like YouTube or Vimeo or the like.

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I need to rant

Good rant. ๐Ÿ‘

Sorry to hear that things arenโ€™t going so awesome. It sounds like your mom is using you as an outlet for her own stress.

Itโ€™s not that sheโ€™s trying to be bossy, sheโ€™s just trying to get relief and thatโ€™s what she thinks will help.

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I've convinced myself that I've cheated on my boyfriend while blackout drunk when I KNOW deep down I did not.

Anonymous wrote:

Rockster160 wrote:
I agree with him. Sounds like you need to move on and put it behind you.

If you don't do that when you're drunk, chances are you won't do it when you're black out drunk. Alcohol reduces our inhibitions. It makes you more willing to do things you're hesitant on doing normally, but you don't suddenly become a totally different person.

I truly think you're safe. ๐Ÿ˜Š I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Thanks so much. So glad I have this website to vent and for people like you to help me out!

My main concern now is that I will see the guy my friend was seeing then when I go back to Orlando to visit and he will tell me I was cheating... But I truly think this is me being completely irrational. I feel like once I convince myself I haven't done anything wrong, my crazy brain thinks of ways to make me worry all over again. You're right though, it's officially time to put all this behind me. Thanks again for your help! It's always nice hearing an outsiders perspective.

You bet! And for what it's worth, the guy probably doesn't remember either. We tend to overthink a lot of what other will say/think/do, but to be honest most of the time they're concerned with themselves as much as you are with you!

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I've convinced myself that I've cheated on my boyfriend while blackout drunk when I KNOW deep down I did not.

I agree with him. Sounds like you need to move on and put it behind you.

If you don't do that when you're drunk, chances are you won't do it when you're black out drunk. Alcohol reduces our inhibitions. It makes you more willing to do things you're hesitant on doing normally, but you don't suddenly become a totally different person.

I truly think you're safe. ๐Ÿ˜Š I don't think you have anything to worry about.

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I've convinced myself that I've cheated on my boyfriend while blackout drunk when I KNOW deep down I did not.

Has your friend been known to lie/cover up stuff like that?

There's no reason not to trust your friend, and if you're not the type of person to do that kind of thing, even more reason to believe you didn't do anything.

If you're really concerned, you can talk about it to your boyfriend. Tell him you don't think you did anything, but you were drunk enough that night that you're not sure and it's bothering you.

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