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I've just rescued an owl

They will know more at the rescue centre.
Your gonna change your name to Mrs Potter.๐Ÿ˜‰

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Knowing you Pep I bet this is literally killing you inside.
I too would feel the same.
Youโ€™ve already helped her out once and look where that got you.
Sadly you need to give her a wide birth,unless you have another $3,000 to spare..


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How do you keep moving forward without falling into the trap of seeing if the grass is greener?

I know for a fact grass is greener.
I also know if I want my life to change I have to keep watering that grass.
As with anything in life, if you take care of it you will benefit one way or another.

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Does anyone know what happens if you eat small amounts of uncooked wild bamboo?

If your having doubts throw them in the bin.

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I've just rescued an owl

What a star you are! ๐Ÿ˜

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i told my partner of five years that we needed to talk

Dolly wrote:
I have read your comments and i am greatful but it is a hard thing for me to reply individually. My head has been all over the place!

He wants to change - he is the one who booked counselling which gives me hope.. I understand this maybe false hope. I am no longer paying him rent or bills or paying for anything which makes me feel a lot less bitter over our living situation.

He has asked me to be in the city for 5pm tomorrow so I'm excited for a date night :)

I think your doing the right thing. Hope it all goes well for you.

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i told my partner of five years that we needed to talk

And itโ€™s โ€œonly stupidโ€ if you feel itโ€™s not worth fighting for.
But judging by your statement you clearly love the guy so stay and work things out.

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i told my partner of five years that we needed to talk

If he wants you to stay in the house could this be due to splitting the bills,or could it be that the love is still there and just needs working on..
It makes no sense โ€œhim wanting to end itโ€ yet he wants to remain with you. Unless he feels you could work this through.
Youโ€™ve been together for 5 years.
It sounds like heโ€™s going through a phase.. Lots of relationships go through it. Itโ€™s no picnic is it,but if itโ€™s worth fighting for then the end result is the ultimate prize.

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i told my partner of five years that we needed to talk

What happened when you found the lumps was he supportive?
Did the intimacy change between you?
Could there be someone else in the picture?
He canโ€™t just fall out of love like that...
Has it ever bothered him you being the main bread winner( you earning more) I know some men can feel intimidated by this..
Has he ever complained about your low paid job?


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i told my partner of five years that we needed to talk

When did things start going sour between you and what was the catalysts?

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