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I get overwhelmed with feelings of failure

Anonymous wrote:

Max2 wrote:
Keep in mind that our feeling and brain will not be true all the time. Judging ourselves and guessing what other people think only makes you feel worst. Having someone to trust helps only if you're honest:) One life, one turn and no repeats. Hurt..hurts. Worry hurts! Keep it real and it's easier:)

Because members of my family judge people and say negatuve things about them behind their back i walk around paranoid in life.

Very common today sadly.
We all deal with this and you can't change them or even teach them. We invite these people hoping they'll be on their best behavior. lol..crapshoot. New hobby's and meeting new people help. Moving around and keeping very busy helps also. Work in progress:) If we both had the answer we'd be on a mountain wearing a white robe and people would travel to see us...lol.

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Say where you're from.

lol..why anon..?

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Should I write my professor?

You did very well! I'm sure you'll do well in your last term:)

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anyone who remembers me say something.....

Same person

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Should I write my professor?

How did it end up?

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Sherlock has published a novel.

Sherlock wrote:

soco wrote:
Got it!
Now when can I get it signed and purchase the obligatory t-shirt?

T-shirts! What a great idea!

Yours will be the first one!

And Sherlock Holmes hats. With two brims. It'll confuse the rappers when they go to turn it backwards...lol.
Good job!

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anyone who remembers me say something.....

Remember Marie or Mas?

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anyone who remembers me say something.....

soco wrote:

Max2 wrote:
I remember you from the absolute very beginning. You did a very good job:)
Enough said.
This is the first post on the new site and my time is very limited now, so a shout is the best way to reach me. Maybe...lol. (you're a sweet)

She wasn't there in 2000, but I was... lol

Yes, we both were. I'm not sure if that's a good thing..lol.

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I hate working for the company I work for.

J.N-Bucking wrote:
Got to pause the meeting and step outside to chat to union.

The union is actually a lot better than it used to be.

I'm on my arse for money as it is, hence them taking shifts off me to piss me off.
No way I can pay legal fees, can barely pay my bills.

It isn't legal to record someone without them knowing.

I don't need to do anything to give them reason, they'll just make something up and back each other up that it happened.

I do need a new job, but am totally in the wrong mind space to be getting one.

I'm impressed with this reply. You seem to understand the events and I understand your frustration. It's hard to keep your income, battle buttwipe liars and maintain your health while representing yourself with a dead weight union representative. Some unions have "PEL" paid educational leave. Do you have this available? I'm thinking of you taking a steward's training coarse.

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I get overwhelmed with feelings of failure

Keep in mind that our feeling and brain will not be true all the time. Judging ourselves and guessing what other people think only makes you feel worst. Having someone to trust helps only if you're honest:) One life, one turn and no repeats. Hurt..hurts. Worry hurts! Keep it real and it's easier:)

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