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If you’re talking with someone and you start feeling like something is there between you all, is it one sided or are you feeling something from that person as well?

I seen someone the other day. I haven’t seen him since the summer. And I was smiling from ear to ear when I left. I was so happy and in the best mood. I’m not going to lie, I think he’s cute. There was a lot of eye contact. I felt something there. I just don’t know if it was one sided or if I was feeling something coming from him? How do you know if he’s just giving you butterflies or if he’s got them too?

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Eye contact is generally a very good sign!
Also- most people are empathetic to a degree so you can usually “sense” if they are one way or another. To a degree, obviously.

Based on the information provided, I’d say you have a good chance of him liking the run in as well. 😊

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Extra hint: a guy doesn't necessarily have to feel 'butterflies' to like you.
He will notice your interest in him and the way you feel.
Offer him some gum or a piece of candy. Make an excuse to touch his hair.
You're in.

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Do you know how to run into him again or will it be another 5 months and a chance circumstance?

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We have another hurricane coming this way.

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being a guy.. i never take confidence in cues unless if im the one making them and i get the reactions i want.

for the other way around, i always take it as a risk trying to step up the flirtations if she's making the cues- hinting etc... so im a robotic dud when it comes to that.

all i know is that whenever i had a thing .. it wasn't the talking that made it happen.. its the pull.. i would gently pull her in . if she followed .. then its all good. I guess on your end.. if you give alot of attention and he responds to it.. take it up to the next level (flirtation-playfulness).

attraction is just the beginning.


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Guys have a lot more trepidation than girls.

A rejected girl can find another guy in about five minutes. It takes a rejected guy a lot longer to connect with another girl.

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I think emotions are generally shared between people if they are having the same reactions to each other. Was he smiling from ear to ear too? You know how they say dogs can smell fear? I think we give off signals about how we feel that other people can sense too, and very often the other people react accordingly.

I was in a ladies house a while back and when I walked in I got this warm fuzzy feeling and everything felt right in the world. I looked at her and she looked at me and we both smiled. It was just an instant in two days of working there, but the guy I was doing the work for calls all the customers and interviews them and hers was very interesting. She said she felt very safe and warm while we were there and it was an enjoyable experience... it made me think we were both experiencing the same feelings at the same time. It doesn't happen all the time but I think it might have been happening for you and the guy in question.

Call him up and invite him somewhere. Tell him you won tickets to something and don't have anyone to go with, yeah. Some girl did that to me one time and we ended up dating for a long time. She told me later she didn't win the tickets she bought them and just wanted to see me again. I thought it was pretty cool.

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