HelpQA Tags Search FAQ
Start a New Post Chat Login & Registration
This post left anonymously

My mum calls me lazy.

She has done since i was teenage. she has constantly belittled me, ignored me, dismissed me, invalidated me for as long as i remember. ive never been able to speak my mind or put my opinion across, she just calls me cheeky and tells me to shut up answering her back

constantly being called angry and aggressive my whole child and teenage life.

so i learned not to fight back, which she hates even more. i struggle with depression and anxiety and have for many many years.

its only now that i realise i was not angry and aggressive, i was frustrated. frustrated at being made irrelevant, being invisible unless i was being degraded.

she has such a low opinion of me. i hear the nastiness in her voice everytime she talks about me. Its not a question. just a rant from someone who is tired of her.

funnily enough i no longer want to die. i wake up every morning loving life. she is the only cancerous part of it

This open post was written |
Views: 27, Subscribers: 6 |
Leave a reply | Report Post

⇩ Zoom to bottom
Reciprocity (0)
Reciprocity
Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last four (4) days.
Post Tags (5)
opinion, angry, frustrated, teenage, aggressive
Replies (5)
Helpbot
HelpBot
last online: 11/12, 21:32
Verified User (8 years, 1 month)
Long Term User
Shoutout0
#
(0 minutes after post)
Suicide Prevention Lifeline

If you are contemplating suicide, hurting yourself, or you are seriously depressed: please, seek professional help!

Call this hotline (1-800-273-8255) operated by our friends at the Suicide Prevention Lifeline, anytime, for free, professional, and confidential assistance. While other Helpers are likely to reply to your post, please make sure you understand that your use of Help-QA.com falls under our TOS.

Note: I'm a robot that the Help-QA creators programmed. If this response is in error, I apologize, please ignore it.

Anonymous edited this post .

My mum calls me lazy.¬ ¬ She has done since i was teenage. she has constantly belittled me, ignored me, dismissed me, invalidated me for as long as i remember. ive never been able to speak my mind or put my opinion across, she just calls me cheeky and tells me to shut up answering her back¬ ¬ constantly being called angry and aggressive my whole child and teenage life.¬ ¬ so i learned not to fight back, which she hates even more. i struggle with depression and anxiety and have for many many years.¬ ¬ its only now that i realise i was not angry and aggressive, i was frustrated. frustrated at being made irrelevant, being invisible unless i was being degraded. ¬ ¬ she has such a low opinion of me. i hear the nastiness in her voice everytime she talks about me.. Its not a question. just a rant from someone who is tired of her.¬ ¬ funnily enough i no longer want to die. i wake up every morning loving life. she is the only cancerous part of it

Img 2679
verge
last online: 03/08, 18:09
Verified User (7 years, 1 month)
Long Term User
Shoutout0
#
(6 hours after post)
Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

That sounds familiar, I know a lot of people with this story. My mom treated me like crap for a while too. Just keep loving life and try to make enough money to move out. :)

05ad6afe 1f85 4c4a 8680 4f73a3c1f45c
Lano
last online: <time class="timeago" datetime="1731554328" title="Nov 14, 2024 3:18">Nov 14, 2024 3:18</time>
Verified User (6 years, 8 months)
Long Term User
Shoutout0
#
(13 hours after post)
Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

Hi Lazy, my mum calls me Lano.

The fact is we rarely have particularly smart, rational, or unselfish parents. At best our parents are average. This is sad but it may help you take less of what your mother tells you to heart.

It took me longer than usual to realize such things as well and im still getting over the disappointment to a degree.

Help me with:

Advice Post

Dr. ralph club zps9ornptsl
DocteurRalph
last online: <time class="timeago" datetime="1729727397" title="Oct 23, 2024 23:49">Oct 23, 2024 23:49</time>
Verified User (7 years, 1 month)
Long Term User
Shoutout0
#
(1 day after post)
Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

I didn't have what one would call supportive parents either. That's why I moved 350 miles away when I was 19 and didn't talk to them for 2 years. Heck they didn't even know where I lived.

It's good that you are not wasting a lot of time thinking about your mum's attitude towards you. It shouldn't be a driving factor in your life. Get away from there and live your own life is my advice.

Help me with:

I need help.

4be8c2d8 78e3 4f52 8977 21b6cc47a3ee
Araz
last online: 12/14, 0:56
Verified User (7 years, 1 month)
Long Term User
Shoutout0
#
(1 day after post)
Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

All children deserve loving parents but not all parents deserve children. Hope you’re able to get enough money together to move away 🤞🏼

A
⇧ Zoom to top

Help-QA supports basic Markdown, emoji 😁, and tagging friends with @username!

To use this site you must be 13 years or older and occasionally submit your email address. Your email address is only shared with your explicit permission.

Home Page - Privacy Policy - Terms of Service - Feedback