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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh

so the puppy that i was supposed to get on weds has a hernia.... which for a normal dog would be fine but i want to compete.

so i have found another pup that is available on sunday....... omg its so soon. im freaking out.

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Nix, sorry the pup has a hernia :/ but glad you have been able to find a new one! :)) are you going to tell your mom before the pup arrives?

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Mya wrote:
Nix, sorry the pup has a hernia :/ but glad you have been able to find a new one! :)) are you going to tell your mom before the pup arrives?

I think that’s why I’m freaking out. I asked last night like I have several times over the last two months and she’s just saying no.

I lost it with her last night. She’s just so selfish, I would get it if we didn’t already have one, or I wasn’t a dog trainer. But she insist she wants to live her life. I’m not stopping her. She stops her self when she is on Facebook constantly.

She’s not happy with her life so she’s ruining mine

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:( That is so hard! What are you going to do then? Will you bring the pup despite her? Will she cause a hell? How will the pup stop her living her life? How about your dad? :((((

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I think I will have to just bring him home. And it will cause hell. But am I supposed to give up my dreams for her? I’ve done that for long enough. She actually said she would love for me to have a puppy. But not now for whatever reason in her warped head.

It won’t affect her at all. She mostly stays at home anyway playing diggy adventures on facebook. She goes out every fri with her mum and sis. Puppy will not affect that.

She is unhappy. And she is using a puppy as an excuse. But the fact is she doesn’t live life now anyway. I want to live my life going to events at weekends and training my dog through the week. My work is flexible so that’s no problem for me. I won’t ever ask her to take care of the puppy unless it’s an absolute emergency as I don’t want her screwing up my dog. Which she would given the chance. I’ve spent 3 years studying dogs so it’s not like it’s a whim which will pass.

All she does is blame people for her problems.

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Plain and simple: Her roof? Her rules.

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Nah, sorry, soco, I don't agree with that.. She is a parent and it is her house, but Nix is not a child anymore! And they live together so there should be some mutual acceptance and compromises..

My mother is very much like Nix's so I can symphatize. Luckily for me I live over thousand miles from mine now.

I really hope and pray that the puppy will touch your mom's heart and bring her some light and love rather than hell. All the best xx

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Harmony is what is wanted. If another pet, at this particular time, is going to cause discourse in that harmony it is simply not worth it.

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Harmony is what is wanted. If another pet, at this particular time, is going to cause discourse in that harmony it is simply not worth it.

Ey, you having a bad day, soco?! Why so negative..? :/

Harmony is important, yep, but why the puppy couldn't bring it after all?

Wish you a day full of love and peace xx

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soco wrote:
Plain and simple: Her roof? Her rules.

That’s why I’m always reluctant to post these problems. It’s so easily to say her house her rules so I must do whatever she demands. My dad is all for a puppy. And if she had valid reasons then I would accept it. But it is no burden to her financially or time wise. The puppy will help me with the business and networking.

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Nix wrote:

soco wrote:
Plain and simple: Her roof? Her rules.

That’s why I’m always reluctant to post these problems. It’s so easily to say her house her rules so I must do whatever she demands. My dad is all for a puppy. And if she had valid reasons then I would accept it. But it is no burden to her financially or time wise. The puppy will help me with the business and networking.

I agree with you, Nix; although your mom can be thinking like soco.
Let's just hope for the best..and be prepared for the worst.
If you don't try, you won't know, will you? What will you do in the worst case? Would you be in a position to move out yet?

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Nix wrote:

soco wrote:
Plain and simple: Her roof? Her rules.

That’s why I’m always reluctant to post these problems. It’s so easily to say her house her rules so I must do whatever she demands. My dad is all for a puppy. And if she had valid reasons then I would accept it. But it is no burden to her financially or time wise. The puppy will help me with the business and networking.

Yes. So would 7. Or 12. Or 18. Look, I've got nothing against dogs. I used to own 5 but are now down to 3. 3 is a good number for us. 2 is NOT a good number for your mom. If you respect her wishes she might eventually cave. But until then....

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soco wrote:
Yes. So would 7. Or 12. Or 18. Look, I've got nothing against dogs. I used to own 5 but are now down to 3. 3 is a good number for us. 2 is NOT a good number for your mom. If you respect her wishes she might eventually cave. But until then....

Soco, but Nix's mom is not being reasonable - she is being difficult, and inconsiderate! :((

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If Mom is not happy, ain't nobody happy.

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I have spent my whole life being considerate and bending over backwards to please that woman. I’m so over it now

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Simply an opinion Nix. I wish you all the best. Personally and professionally.

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I know soco

The fact is my mum is not happy now and has not been for a while.

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I know soco

The fact is my mum is not happy now and has not been for a while.

..and probably will not be even if you don't get the puppy!

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I know your fed up of hearing it luv but Soco is right “her home her rules” you need to abide by whatever she says if your living under her roof.
Don’t get me wrong I understand your frustration,however it’s already noted that it’s not a happy household, you bringing in another pet might escalate things further.
When you have your own house you can do whatever you please.

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Hey, Nix, how are things? xx

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Mya wrote:
Hey, Nix, how are things? xx

****Shit

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More suicidal than ever

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Hey Nix. What's going on?

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Oh, no! :(((( Have you got the pup home and things are not going well, or you have not been able to bring him home? So, so sorry.. Been thinking about you; stay strong, things will improve!

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Nix wrote:
More suicidal than ever

Don’t like the sound of that. Pm me. 🤗

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Nix?! :(((

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^^

I recently spoke to Nix and she’s ok. 😁

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Glad to read that! Thanks, @Evansent

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Your welcome , Mya 😁

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