Well, Nix, sorry I wasn't the friend you needed. Didn't mean to be mean and run you off, but, at the same time I guess I'm not much worth hanging about...
Hey Nix! You can either use the Whisper feature, or my email is on my profile and you're welcome to send me an email. 👍
Absolutely! Thanks. :)
Honestly surprised those words weren't already filtered. 🤷♂️
It looks better than I thought!
I'm glad you like it - I had fun making it (and...your turn was long over due).
Okay, I believe I corrected some mistakes (thank you for your patients, nothing you did was wrong).
Simply go back to the image and download it again to your phone/computer. Then, upload the image here at Help.
It should work (hopefully!)
You can right-click on the image, then "save image as" (or if using a smart phone) press and hold over the image it will give you the option to download the image....
If you save it to your Desktop or Smart Phone it will not necessarily blink until you Upload the Image here at Help.
Just go to your Avatar page.
I'm not going to say it is the same or better than Little Nicks' chuchauha dog, but....it's yours If you want it -
Just out of curiosity weren't you here on the old help, you look familiar
How do you think you’ve done?
Nix you have an intelligent head on your shoulders I’m sure there’s nothing to worry about.
I’m a bit surprised with the new puppy though, after all the fuss your Parents kicked up about getting George and now your getting another.. What a turn around.
Like I said it’s there whenever your ready.x
I know you do.
You still crafting and working hard?
Is it paying off ok?
The offer is still there if ever you feel like a change your always welcome,sadly George wouldn’t be able to accompany you, still the offer is there..
Aww why luv what’s wrong?
You can always pm me , I’ve always got time for you. 🤗
I know luv that's why I've put breathe in my shout box.
Whenever your ready I'm here.x
Oh wow yeah it’s totally different there! It’s a seller’s market 100% - I don’t even think there are buyer’s agents.
I say contact the owner directly and have a talk!
First things first - you need to get an offer written up for the amount you wish to purchase for. He then needs to sign and accept your offer or give you a counteroffer.
Every state has different laws, but VA is a buyer beware state.
I have a “hunny do” list I can send you that has a checklist of what we have to do when buying a home.
What state are you in? My advice would also be to contact an agent in your state. They get commission from the seller, not you, and you’re not committed to anything unless you sign an exclusive agency form to represent. I would be more than happy to have my broker review anything they give you - he would be unbiased since it would literally have nothing to do with him.
I know we have agents in Georgia, Maryland, DC, & VA but I can ask if anyone in the office knows a realtor in your state?
Honestly, from my experience? Tell them the market value of their home right now and offer above it. Ask them how much they would be willing to take to walk away from it (within reason).
Lol! Thanks Nix. Left a messasge on the chat but he took it down AND knew I was there.
I tried but he's a suicide type - would rather get nothing and burn the info. I find that to be a character of low Q.
Aye, I believe I'm familiar with the sensation. It was one thing back in the old days, loss of a friend's friend, now topped with the feeling of missing the chance for a final farewell. Mayhap have come to accept them as family over time, without knowing.
I hadn't known her as well as I should have, but these were her parting words:
Boy, this is hard to say..To all my friends here.
I’m very sick with CLL-Leukemia.Since it is severe the chemo may be too late to help, should I decide to go that route. Don’t be too sad . I’ve gone from questioning everything to mere acceptance so I accept it was meant to happen ..But this is about saying goodbye. I came here about 6 yrs ago when I got my first computer. It became my home for about 4 yrs consistently. I mostly helped with suicide posts but in the process made cherished friends & got help for my own problems and SO much more. This site and the people has helped me grow. It brought me out of my shell , taught me how to communicate, opened my heart, mind and eyes, the list goes on and on. I suppose the biggest lesson I’ve learned is we are all in this thing called life-together,all connected, we all are here for a purpose and never alone. And the fun ! the laughs ! was something that I really lacked in my life…so, to all of you. I love you and God loves you more. Never give up, unless it’s to him. Until we meet in the afterlife-Goodbye.
👍 Probably should have told you when I first changed it. It was pretty early, it had just slipped my mind. 😅
By the way- usernames are allowed to have 3 characters now, so if you want to drop the last
x, feel free. 🙂
Send me a msg to firstname.lastname@example.org and I will send you the business plan I developed for a security and PI company!
I thought she would have perked up a bit.
She's been like that for a good few years now. Maybe her job makes her feel low..
I still think it's a good idea to get her involved in your business. You can take George for his training then and she "might" appreciate all the work your putting in with your crafts as well as your training. It's worth giving it a shot and if it don't work then at least you've tried.😁
Just letting you know I'm not trying to patronise you when Insay about "Mother Daughter bonding"
I know you sometimes have it hard socialising with your Mum.
All those crafts your making you should be able to leave home shortly.
Hello sister. Been a long time. Nice to see you again too. Lots of love and hope you okay
If you want it Nix, I'll gladly give it up. The avatar that is. I did not remember who it belonged to. There's another I've been meaning to try, so grab it from Big-Al-One post.
It's great to be back here!
I keep forgetting about help, it's Bern so long since we lost it
No, you are definitely not alone. :) I think it also helps to know that you can talk to others who have the same experience too, so you don't just feel like you have to be stuck getting frustrated in a vacuum. And well...I'm a helper. Always have been. Probably to a fault. Lol.
I think I recall the name! Sadly though, I cannot honestly say I remember much. I went through quite a bit since leaving everyone behind when the old site disappeared, and if you've seen my previous shouts you might have seen that I had a fatal overdose scare...so some of my memories aren't how they used to be. Things didn't exactly turn out smoothly when I left help, and I left feeling hated by almost everyone and I only kept in contact with one person.
By the way, Aria is just my screen/other name. My real name is Amy. "Aria" is just a name I've used for a while since I have done some self discovery. Aria is my "other" side.
No, not multiple personality. Lol. I am um...in the BDSM lifestyle and so "Aria" is the part that reflects that.
Okay, that might have been TMI. Sorry. Heh.
If you ever need a cheering squad, let me know! I am still in recovery even though it's been officially four years since I finally walked out of my house again. I still cannot do things by myself...except go across the road. I'm turning 32 next year, and my parents are still legally listed as my carers. I was put on disability in 2010 and I had to do the interview by phone.
I cannot say I have exactly the same weight issues - I am also in ED recovery.
A good therapist can do wonders! So I hope you have found one that will help you build on your strengths. Is your therapist one who uses CBT techniques?
I ended up having to start off my recovery all on my own when I just got fed up and angry at the disorder, rather than angry at myself (there's a huge difference, when for the longest time, I didn't think there was).
My agoraphobia is caused by complex PTSD and severe anxiety, and I've only been on new medications for just over a year.
Truly - please feel free to ask for help, support/advice ANY time. I hate seeing others going through the same living hell that I did. It gets better, I promise. I'm living proof.
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