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Apathy, laziness.

Anonymous wrote:
You have to know what the meaning of "incentives" are.
There is always something that people will rise to.

For example?

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Should I have an extramarital affair?

Going to go meet my crush for coffee this evening. I'm still very conflicted and I'm trying to be good and responsible but being irresponsible just seems like it would feel so good. Up to now, I'm innocent, except in daydreams. I think I can manage to stay that way.

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What are/were your plans for Halloween?

We went half as far as usual and got twice as much candy. Plenty of adults were participating, but not many kids. Usually the kids in my neighborhood go out in a big group but this year they didn't. My kids dressed as a wolf and a ghost.

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Are you woke?

Legalized wrote:
Its a word the progressives use to think there thinking is spot on , no matter how crazed it sounds. Hence the post.
Only woke people know eating aunt jemiah pancakes is racist.
Lol

shrugs

Nobody uses that word on this side of the continent.

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Are you woke?

What does "woke" even mean? I only ever hear boomers say it and only ever in a negative context, but I still have no clear idea what it means.

But the other day a friend from California told me it's a real word and not an insult or derogatory term. Must be a west coast thing, I don't know.

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Is it still summer weather where you live?

Padre_J_Roulston wrote:
I'm always lurking, even if I don't get on often to be able to comment. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Nice to see you.

We are having temperatures in the 50s at night pretty often lately, which is about seasonable. The climate here in coastal Virginia seems almost tropical, with rare cold days usually starting in late January or early February. Last spring was really late, but usually our version of winter is over by March.

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Some help

After you've told them you do not have immediate plans to have children, if they keep harassing you, just avoid them. Make it clear why you are avoiding them if they ever ask.

If it's your parents or other close family, and not otherwise toxic, you might have to just tolerate it with his humor. Maybe someday they will stop.

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Is it still summer weather where you live?

Much cooler today. I'm wearing a lightweight hoodie and socks for the first time since March.

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Should I have an extramarital affair?

After a few cancellations, we finally had lunch. Help! I'm in loooovvveee! It's completely stupid and I hate it.

He likes me in that way too, and that makes it so much worse. I don't want to lose my only IRL friend due to stupid infatuation, but that's what's going to happen.

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Are you a cat person or a dog person?

My cats come running when I get home.

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