780 replies, Replies 121 to 130

If you follow someone on social media and they tell you they don’t post much is that their way of telling you not to follow them?

People who don't use social media much don't follow back because they don't check their account often. This person isn't going to tell you not to follow them because - that's AWKWARD - but this interaction makes sense to me.

- written
sometimes i wonder..

SassyMonkey wrote:
like be more genuine and sensitive? idk.. i've always been a bit of a jerk in a way but i do know im a good person and would never intentionally hurt people.

again.. sometimes i wonder.. if im a hard case.. cuz.. i want to be liked.. but i have this un-magnetic vibe for people in general..

just feeling bit low .. this monkey's gone off to cry forever alone.

Ooof, I'm #triggered. The need to be liked is something I struggle with on a daily basis.

Honestly - I think a lot more people than you think struggle with this issue. Al got it right - you really are special. The more time you spend reminding yourself of that fact, the happier you will be.

There will always be someone who doesn't like you. The important thing is that YOU like yourself. If you seek validation from others, instead of yourself, you will always struggle with these thoughts.

Of course, this is advise I could take myself. I know it's easier said than done. But try!

PS I think most people like you here from what I've seen :)

- written
My friend got her care giving hours back.

Happy to hear it. That's great news!

- written
Is there a section for intensely serious topics like child abuse experiences?

And you can always keep it anonymous if you don't want people to know who you are. All of us, even though we know each other very well, have aspects of our personality and history that we don't know about each other.

I also use Reddit if you REALLY want to be anonymous. These two are pretty popular and in line with child abuse questions. You can specify if you want advise or just want to rant or whatever:

https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOFAMILY/

- written
Nacthoman or Yorick..

Jetmoo wrote:
hi @Yorick i havent seen u around before. Are u new?

It's Yorick/Nacthoman!

- written
Any Batman fans out there?

SassyMonkey wrote:
oldie and goodie.. i remember when i laughed so hard to this..

https://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/s...

I have to watch this when I get home from work! :) Thank you!

- written
........Cancel.......

- but I slipped up bc of the alcohol.

We’ve all been there. That’s ok - so you overshared when tipsy. It happens! Don’t beat yourself up over it.

Part of me thinks I lead guys on which is why I have it coming.

You NEVER have anything coming. It’s natural to flirt, but setting boundaries is important.

But the other part of me thinks that a 43 year old coworker should not have tried to kiss me.

I agree with this. That’s the equivalent to a 13 year old flirting with me (I’m 33) and wtf that’s gross. 20 years is too much and honestly... I feel like you’re a baby compared to this guy. He’s old enough to be your father! Ick!

- written
Any Batman fans out there?

BIG-AL-ONE wrote:
"Alfred, give birth to Robin."

Funny -

Says a lot about AI.

I know 😂

- written
Any Batman fans out there?

Lano wrote:
The coupon at the end though lol

I know man, I’m dying 😂🤣

- written
Any Batman fans out there?

“You drink water. I drink anarchy.”

Lmao 😂😂😂

- written