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Is there a section for intensely serious topics like child abuse experiences?

I am a member of several facebook groups that deal with that kind of experiences. You can looked them up in a search. Either child abuse experiences, or toxic families, narcissistic abuse and like.

Hope you will find the right help x You may like to put Trigger Warning at the beginning of your post either here or elsewhere, and than mention what kind of triggering info your post may contains, before writing your story.

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Is there a section for intensely serious topics like child abuse experiences?

DragonLady wrote:
I, personally, try to help solve current problems and try to help put past trauma into perspective. Whatever happened, happened. It can't be changed; so reliving it is, IMO, counter productive.

It's good to be a "surviving" but far better to be "thriving" and that requires putting your focus and attention to TODAY.

Please, we can NOT choose! If it depended on our will, I don't think any of us would choose to relive / have flashbacks..

Statements like these are not helpful at all, can be triggering and harmful to people who battle trauma.

Please, we are already traumatized and retraumatized by people minimazing, denying, or simly choosing to cover up the abuse that had been done to us.

Statements like these are a huge burden on people fighting trauma.

I'm at a very low point myself, and am not trying to pick a fight, but please, GIVE US A BREAK, if you can't help.

Thank you. Shalom xx

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I think im gonna end up having another nervous breakdown to be honest.

Oh, great! Here is a list of 100 contemporary christian songs, some have lyrics, the others need to be searched -

https://genius.com/Christian-genius-top-100-con...

Youtube list of songs -

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=ch...

And a fb joke -

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Happy New Year

Jetmoo wrote:
I have a friend in wales โ˜บ
Wales is a beautiful place

Aaw, great! Yes, agreed, Jetmoo, i'm in love with the country..

One of my highlights of 2019 below.. but wish everyone had their 'beacon of light' in 2020 no matter where they are x

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I think im gonna end up having another nervous breakdown to be honest.

Wish i had answers and tips, Jetmoo. Different things work with different people.. i, myself, need to run to a place of solitude be it a beach or deep dark woods..

There are many beautiful contemporary Christian songs that give strenght, hope and faith, but not sure if you would fancy those.

Try googling 'quotes to give you strength', and you will find loads of others. Hope they will be helpful to you xx

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Happy New Year

https://www.grasi.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016...

Happy New Year to all helpers from Wales xx

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I think im gonna end up having another nervous breakdown to be honest.

:( ..Any particular problem, or worn our in general?

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Forgiveness quotes please.

How about these:

https://www.drhallowell.com/wp-content/uploads/...

https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5...

Hope that love is flowing through your heart again, Jetmoo, and whoever is meant to help you, will help x

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Merry christmas.

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My dad never taught me anything.

It can be a lifelong struggle healing from toxic parent/s; I'm sorry that is your case, too.

There are many helpful resources out there, and help groups on fb, for example.

It can be long and painful journey to get freed from our past, but it is doable, and it does get better x

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