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What do you think of someone who admits they made a mistake?

I was at work earlier and I work with conferences that come into town. Well, someone told the client the wrong thing. To me, I don’t think it was that big of a deal. I just thought the team was being a little ridiculous. They had all of us come into a meeting and got onto all of us. Someone mentioned that no one would come forward and say they are to blame for giving out the wrong information. But someone did. What would you do? I don’t really know the person and some people were like “I wouldn’t of said anything.” But I think it takes a lot to admit you are wrong and you made a mistake. I think it showed character. What do you think?

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In an ideal situation, people should feel comfortable enough to admit when they are wrong.

But work environments can be highly competitive and being wrong is just plain never as good as being right.

At the same time, the ability to take responsibility for and correct your mistakes is a strength in itself, and a good manager should note that. Honesty is valuable.


It's a balance. You want to be perceived as responsible and honest, but also as competent. The best solution is to be perfect but thats not possible either.

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It seems to boil down to who pays the consequences.

Why should anyone care about anything when someone else is paying the consequences. It's often said that it's no big deal.

Until it's time to pay the piper.

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I think you're right. It shows strength, character, power and confidence in self, to admit when you're wrong.

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anyone who owns up to their faults.. is respected in my book.. so many people i know .. are in denial/defense.. even when its their fault in plain sight!!

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If people admitted that they were wrong then my family wouldnt be as broken as it is! i really commend people when they admit it, its a lot easier than pretending otherwise. and its a lot easier to move on from, when people dont admit mistakes then there is only dwelling and holding on it. admitting and moving on is always the best thing

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I think it depends on the situation. If admitting that you made a mistake is going to cause liability issues for the company, then sometimes it’s better to keep your mouth shut. Also, it’s important not to give more information than necessary. It does take a lot of courage to admit when you have done something wrong, though.

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Honesty is a sign of maturity, and how to gain respect from others.

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