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God I'm SO SICK of waking up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anon, (am on my phone, so hard to answer your whole reply) - God would not ask anyone to kill!

And don't judge God based on my morality, or the lack of it, please. I have a thing for evil (won't even mention falling for the most evil and messed up guys around); and for me it is a daily battle to try to resist it..

Why is that, i dont know; but not all Christ's followers are burdened in this way!

And btw, if you don't believe in God, why did you call on Him (in your post) ?!?

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Domestic violence and abuse..

Anonymous wrote:

but looking at women isn't a sin and shouldn't be something you get sent to hell for because mythology says so, you know what I mean. Yes God is anti female. Theres something wrong seriously wrong with most religions i've looked at. cant we all get along without religions getting in the way

There are many types of sin.. murder, stealing, lying, etc. not only lust. (They talk about 7 deadly sins). I struggle with many sins, and lust used to be one of them. By God's grace I did overcome it! You can do it too, if that is the only thing which worries you..

And God does not want anyone of us to end up in hell! He wants us all to be saved.. but we need to ask Him for that - to be saved, and for help with our sins.

Hell is not only a place where we will spend eternity - we can live in hell right here on this planet! Sin messes up our mind and our heart and our relationship with God. Think about a marital infidelity, and what damage it does to the relationship.

Biblically, Jesus is our groom - we are married to Him (regardless whether we are a male or female). He wants to have a happy, loving relationship with us! And as in a marriage you wouldn't want your spouse to cheat, He does not want us to cheat on Him either.

I hope it makes sense...?

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everyone in town is treating me like i poisoned their dog...

Anonymous wrote:

i have behavioral evidence nothing tangible. they're smarter than i am.

I am not smart either, but there are resources there to study bully or toxic people tactics. I know one thing which CERTAINLY WORKS with them - humility!

They can be very smart, or strong, powerful, have money, friends at right places etc., but they never have humility! And it is excactly that which you can use to defeat them.. if you can be humble! I often am not, so end up right on my face..

All the best! xx

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God I'm SO SICK of waking up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous wrote:
a 'god' won't do anything because until there's proof there's a god that can do anything you can show me, then there's pretty much no *******fucking reason to believe there's a god okay? so that being said it's fine if lying to yourself works for you. no harm done right?

if i thought there were a heaven or hell or god to meet after this life i'd have *******fucking left it by now.

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If you have a partner, do you trust your partner of demand him/her to produce constant proof of love and trust etc.? Why would you expect it from God? He does not owe us anything! It is us who need Him..

I wish God did not exist.. I would speed all the time; I would certainly rob a bank - not for money, but for the thrill of it; I would take drugs and drink booze, have ***sex with as many people as I could.. and I know I would love all those things. Oh, I would also enjoy killing a man or a few.. Please, do convince me that God does not exist! xx

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God I'm SO SICK of waking up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous wrote:

thx Mya. Ive tried that giving my life to Christ it didnt work for me and the only church here is a bad one that isn't progressive or cool and acts like my dad didnt do anything bad when he did. i've even written you know to christian networks, tried giving my life to christ online and none of it worked which is why i dont recommend that way to others. i tried it not once but several times and it didnt work for me. it doesnt work for so many people. as for christ he's a "dont look at her or youll go to hell" boogeyman anyway... no offense to believers just stating my views

Oh, I am really so sorry that giving your life to Christ did not work for you! :((( I am far from an expert, but have you tried just talking to Jesus? Not using any prescribed formulas or church liturgy etc. Just talk to Him with your heart; tell Him about your situation and how unhappy you are and would need help; and that you really want to give your life to Him if He can show you if there is anything in the way (maybe a sin to repent from..?).

You write that Jesus is '"dont look at her or youll go to hell" boogeyman'.

Well, firstly it is not quite right - Jesus does not want anyone to go to hell. If there are any rules or laws, these are purely for our good (like highway laws, for example. If everyone drove the way they wanted, there would be a chaos and lots of accidents. So, the rules are for our benefit rather than our restriction.)

Secondly, even if you struggle to keep the rules, that's why there is Jesus there! You go to Him, tell Him what you struggle with and He will give you help and grace to overcome it.. (which often is not instant, and may take years! I personally had a few 'overnight' transformations, and on the other hand, I have been struggling with the same sin over and over and over for decades.. If I was not attempting to follow Christ, I am sure I would have started some polygamous cult where women would have multiple husbands! Yep, i would be very capable of something like that.. ;)

I really hope that there will be light and hope in your situation! Although, practically, i do not know what else to suggest, i am sorry :( hug!

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Thank you, smiley, Jebus-Zeus and Lawn for the music - interesting choices! :)

From me it would be something from 50's or 60's..

https://youtu.be/OWpZZ0rrReE

Or perhaps some Czech punk..? ;)

https://youtu.be/n1BasrCml5E

Maybe Slovak punk? ๐Ÿ˜„

https://youtu.be/-5XCsUQu8Zc

For those in (search) of love..

https://youtu.be/72wU4-QY2cU
and
https://youtu.be/E7dNKE3yWJ0

Or a bit more cheerful one

https://youtu.be/kghCqyMLPFA

<3 loving the party! Thanks for coming, guys xx

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Anonymous wrote:
Great :) nice visual

which hard drinks do you like in real life?
Which foods?
There has to be pizza, burgers, subs and hot dogs plus popcorn and movies too

Yes, pizza and all..(although some veg stuff too, as i dont eat meat - except men O:).)

Loads of popcorn and movies! 8)

Vodka with juice or wine for me, but i rarely drink.

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BigWilly! wrote:
'bout how I feel at the moment. Just cruised through a box of Sugar Corn Pops (dry, cuz milk is for babies and I'm also a cheap bastard) that I got from the food bank on Friday. Still too damned hot to cook.

:D whoa, yeah, that's something what i would do!

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everyone in town is treating me like i poisoned their dog...

Anonymous wrote:

Oh, they've won. I've known that for some time. I'm totally f*cked.

Evidence? Are you gathering any evidence?

If you are sure that it is not a result of any mental illness, than you need to start gathering evidence and building a case, so someone can help you.

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post closed....thank you

Sorry about your dad :( but glad you have nice memories!

My father was always absent even when he lived..and then he died in 1988 when i was 11.

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