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Hello HelpQA family..

soco wrote:
Can't complain.

What is stopping you, soco..? ;)

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Hello HelpQA family..

Helper wrote:
Stressed and ill , you ? :)

Oh, just seen your post; i'm sorry it is making you ill. :( hope you feel better soon. Vitamin c, and garlic can make miracles!

And thank you, I need a distraction from my stress etc., so come here to chill :)

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How to stop stress?

Stress can weaken our immune system.. Hope you feel better soon. x

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I have a date this Friday and I just donโ€™t know.

music=life wrote:
Update- new date canceled ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

:( whoa! Hope you are okay! hug xx

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My mum could win a million pounds tomorrow.

:( your mom does have issues..! Her behaviour is toxic.. Are you in a position to move out yet? It is having a negative effect on you to be around. Try searching for Toxic Relationship Recovery/Healing. Hope you will find the right help. All the best xx

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I think my ex is engaged and I wish it didnโ€™t hurt me.

music=life wrote:
Thanks guys. I know I need to get over it. Itโ€™s just so easy to curl up and have a pitty party when your life seems to be falling apart. I know I shouldnโ€™t be looking at his new gf Instagram bc I know it just hurts me more. I know I shouldnโ€™t hope that heโ€™ll text me but I do. The hard thing about all of this is that I know exactly what not to do and what to do to feel better but for some reason I canโ€™t do it.

I find letting go extremely difficult also and invest a lot in relationships.. This time I began playing badminton with a group of new folks whom I had never met before and it did work 'magic'..

If you don't want to start dating again, consider joining some sports' groups or new hobbies with other people to take your mind of him.

I hope you will be able to move forward and find happiness & love soon, music=life xx

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How to stop stress?

Oh, so sorry about that, Helper :( Hope you are recovering from that experience and will have only positive ones from now on.

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I think my ex is engaged and I wish it didnโ€™t hurt me.

soco wrote:
It is totally up to you. Sit at home in silence and have a pity party for one.
Or... stand up. Dream forward. And move forcibly in that positive direction. No one can do it for you. Motivation has to come from within.

MartinD wrote:

She's right. Wallowing in self pity only reminds you of the past. You can't change the past. Just accept that its done, and worry about yourself and where your future lies.

Personally I found keeping myself overly busy was a great way to move on from a broken heart.

Guys, but music=life wrote that he was her FIRST love (& a best friend).. The first break up not only 'deserves' some grief and mourning for the lost love, but it is even necessary for healing.. so then one can move on.

And btw, she also wrote she THINKS he is engaged.. so he might not be.

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God I'm SO SICK of waking up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous wrote:

i'm trying but the situatiion is hopeless and i am helpless... i will start a new thread and put your name in it so you can helpme there ive already ruined the op's post lol

:( ok xx

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Until tonight I never truly understood how people could be awoken by anxiety...

Cast your worries and axieties onto the Lord - Phillippians 4.

I suffer with a chronic anxiety, but for me it is more of a feeling (in my chest) rather than thoughts. Most nights I don't sleep because of it. I am reminded all the time to cast all of my worries onto the Lord as He does not want us to be anxious about anything and to trust Him.. It is not easy to do.

Hope you can get your project finished and trust in the Lord, Padre.

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