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I'm drunk right now and probably no one is on by hi.

Jebus-Zeus wrote:

Sherlock wrote:
I had a friend who would also "drunk dial" me and other friends. He'd call about 2:30 or 3:00 a.m. Disconcerting, to say the least!

i used to drunk dial my old commander from the army at 2am years ago, im pretty sure he moved change his name and relocated to another universe

:D ..i'm so happy now i'm not a chap! None of my friends ever done this to me.. (but they did used to drag me to night clubs when i was young, and i don't know why i stupidly went when i never enjoyed it.. However, i did enjoy dragging them to male strip shows some 10 years later on! ;D Surprised that none of their husbands got me poisoned..)

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I think my ex is engaged and I wish it didn’t hurt me.

music=life wrote:
It’s official he is engaged and I don’t think I’ve ever felt more broken

:(

..i was finally able to cry and weep for almost two straight days on Friday and Saturday (in my car mostly, on the motorway; passers by might have thought that i have a howling wolf in there! ;) But it did work a miracle!)

Grieving is healing.. Better than sleeping around (which i used to do, too), or any other unhealthy way of copying like drinking/drugs (overeating in my case) etc.

The right guy will come along.. usually it indeed happens at a time when we are not looking at all.

I must say i am enjoying attention I am getting now.. I bought some nice clothes recently for a guy who i was seeing for a month after 8 years not dating, and although he himself treated me badly, the other guys treat me like a queen, and I am loving it! Really temted to start dating again, or even there's a possibility that I will have a male housemate - met him yesterday - it went really well! 8)

I am hoping to see you happy soon, too, music=life xx

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I have a date this Friday and I just don’t know.

soco wrote:
Don't be afraid to ask friends if you could tag along with them for a few evenings. Insist on paying your own share. Shopping, movies, happy hour, or perhaps a live band at a nice drinking establishment. Have fun. Quit concentrating on your lack of marriage material. When you least expect it, he will emerge above the fray.

Yes, I agree with soco.. Have time out with friends or date and take it slooowly. Don't look for anything serious, just fun and good time; and if he is the right one, he will stick around and wait for s3x.. (but then look who's writing it!).

So hope you will be happy soon, music=life xx

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Gratefulness is helpful, so I am grateful for it.

Yes, as Docteur wrote, happy and grateful you feel better.

It is actually quite a good strategy to count one's blessings at a low point.. tents to work miracles. xx

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My mum could win a million pounds tomorrow.

DocteurRalph wrote:
Your mom sounds like my wife. She has started to be miserable all the time too, and for no apparent reason. She doesn't work, has a car and money and absolutely no responsibilities but all she does is *****bitch about how awful her life is... All the kids laugh behind her back and say "what the hell is wrong with her? All she ever does is throw a couple of loads of laundry in the washer twice a week and go shopping. What's to be miserable about?"

So yeah I know where you're coming from but I haven't figured out how to make her happy. I have figured out you can't make someone else happy, they have to decide to be happy themselves. Hell I could live under a bridge and eat out of a dumpster and enjoy myself more than she does...

You are right, we can't make other people happy.. I don't know your wife's age, but could she possibly began having some illness - alzheimers, or something else affecting her mood? I hope it is nothing serious and she will have a shake up and realise how blessed she is.

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Hello HelpQA family..

Sherlock wrote:
I got back from Africa yesterday after spending 10 weeks there! It's so good to be home again!!!

:) glad you are beck home safe and well, Sherlock! And hope you have nice memories of Africa..

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Hello HelpQA family..

DocteurRalph wrote:
I just set up my Coleman pop-up camper to air it out for the 4th of July camping trip and it started raining cats and dogs.. all the windows were down. It's raining on my parade now.

You are not having the best of times, Docteur, are you? :/ Hope it will improve really soon and you can have a great celebration on the 4th.

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Hello HelpQA family..

BigWilly! wrote:
Sitting up in the hills outside Osoyoos, camped in my rig and living the life of Riley.

Checked out goodle images, WOW, beautiful!

But i might not need to envy you as it looks like that I will be moving to Wales much sooner than I was expecting, and it is beautiful there, too. Been stuck 30 miles north from London for the past 20 years and there is no hill in sight in here :(((

Went to Wales yesterday first time, 10 hr round trip, but fell in love with it! 8) So look forward to the change, although I have no accommodation or job there yet, and no money.. *Paniiiic!

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Hello HelpQA family..

DocteurRalph wrote:
I got off probation yesterday, so I must be doing something right. No more random drug tests, time for a party? LOL To be honest I've been sick as a dog for almost a week. Had the *****shits last Sunday and Monday night started throwing up... threw up for three days straight and didn't sleep either. By Thursday I was so weak I could barely talk and was hoping I would just die. Somehow I kept some soup down and slept half a night Thursday so I guess I'm going to live after all. That's the rest of the story from Ralphvegas!

:( i'm so glad you are feeling better and will live, DocteurRalph! We need you here.. Let's just have another party, yeah! ;) <3

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Hello HelpQA family..

💀B.A.1.💀 wrote:
Other than a sense of Deja Vu, I'm doing okay.
Does this seem familiar? -
https://help-qa.com/posts/725-hello-helpqa-family

Sorry, B.A.1, blond moment, don't get it O:)

PS: Are you having some identity crisis?

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