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Helper wrote:
Why wouldn't your daughter tell you anything about that guy? And what does she plan to do 5 weeks later?

That's what i would like to know as well! :(( why does she have to keep it so secret? Apparently, he's much older than her, but still living with parents.

She has a place in university from September if she returns.

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Yes, soco, she is traveling alone.. (And have I mentioned that she has quite severe social anxiety and has not been anywhere out of her room for about five years, and just about managed to attend some school?!)

Well, i'm broke, got no money at all.. so, those prayers will be needed and I really appreciate them, soco - THANK YOU!

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Just found out my dad has got terminal stomach cancer.

BuckingFastard(JN) wrote:

I am now really weird.
I've lost the ability to hide it and behave like a normal person.

The last time they saw me I was still capable of hiding my insanity.

It will shock and worry them to see me now.

I have broke contact with everyone I used to know so that nobody would see what I am now and nobody would notice when I disappear completely.

We see you here and we love you! And we would certainly notice if you disappeared.. :(

Well, I guess you have nothing to lose then. They will either accept you or you will just do what you have been doing. I am a mom and I would want to see my daughter no matter what if i was on my death bed..

You might have made some bad choices in life or took some actions which resulted in painful consequences, but you did not choose 'insanity', or did you?

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Entrance of the time being

:D loool xx

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Just found out my dad has got terminal stomach cancer.

BuckingFastard(JN) wrote:
I have to go and see him.

When I turn up without my husband they are going to notice that, I can't hide that we are no longer together and that I caused that.

They are going to notice how much I have changed and I can't hide that.

Those things unfortunately happen :( None of us is perfect.. We can all be hurtful or do wrong things at times.

Why do you think that they would consider how you changed in a bad way? Is there a way to talk to your mom first about your situation..?

Explain to her that you'd like to see them both, especially dad, and be there for him, but you are afraid that they will find it hurtful rather than supportive. This is what happened and this is how it affected you, and this is how you are now. Tell them that you are sorry and if they still would like you to be there that you would love to do that.

Sending lots of love

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Nix wrote:
I know soco

The fact is my mum is not happy now and has not been for a while.

..and probably will not be even if you don't get the puppy!

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soco wrote:
Yes. So would 7. Or 12. Or 18. Look, I've got nothing against dogs. I used to own 5 but are now down to 3. 3 is a good number for us. 2 is NOT a good number for your mom. If you respect her wishes she might eventually cave. But until then....

Soco, but Nix's mom is not being reasonable - she is being difficult, and inconsiderate! :((

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Nix wrote:

soco wrote:
Plain and simple: Her roof? Her rules.

Thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m always reluctant to post these problems. Itโ€™s so easily to say her house her rules so I must do whatever she demands. My dad is all for a puppy. And if she had valid reasons then I would accept it. But it is no burden to her financially or time wise. The puppy will help me with the business and networking.

I agree with you, Nix; although your mom can be thinking like soco.
Let's just hope for the best..and be prepared for the worst.
If you don't try, you won't know, will you? What will you do in the worst case? Would you be in a position to move out yet?

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soco wrote:
Harmony is what is wanted. If another pet, at this particular time, is going to cause discourse in that harmony it is simply not worth it.

Ey, you having a bad day, soco?! Why so negative..? :/

Harmony is important, yep, but why the puppy couldn't bring it after all?

Wish you a day full of love and peace xx

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Just found out my dad has got terminal stomach cancer.

This is indeed a difficult situation.. I am sorry about it and your dad.

I presume if they searched for you than they are prepared to accept whatever and just want you to be there.

I don't know how I would react if my mother asked me to be there for her as we have not spoken for almost a lifetime; but I would like to think that i would be able to overcome the past and reconcile with her.

Whatever you decide to do, I hope it will bring you and your parents peace and love. Big hug xx

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