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A Nanny From Hell..

music=life wrote:
Can you use the dad as a reference instead?

Thanks, better not; although he's already left me 5* review on my online nanny profile where I get work from.

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A Nanny From Hell..

Yes @Helper, how? (Not only at him but in general) :(((

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A Nanny From Hell..

Lol wish i could say that @Jebus-Zeus! :D or better still if i actually could vomit..

Thanks @soco, only two days left. I am guilty of wrong clothes - started dressing up for the other guy who i like, but otherwise i believe am professional and a minimum talk - a sentence or two.

Am just so sad that i worked so bloody hard for over a year and now it is all destroyed :(

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Just found out my dad has got terminal stomach cancer.

Are you able to write to them?

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I'm going to find a new job.

You seem to have a good plan.. Talk to her again.. But sadly, sometimes there is nothing you can do to please others :(

Hope that whatever decision you'll make, will make you reach your goals. All the best.

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Question 5...Wednesday

In the past two, to almost three months, there is such a blink at least every other day..! Yep, i'm just about keeping my sanity..

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A Concern:

I don't even trust myself..! and post here just to talk to myself.

https://c1.staticflickr.com/4/3152/2564174113_6...

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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh

Oh, no! :(((( Have you got the pup home and things are not going well, or you have not been able to bring him home? So, so sorry.. Been thinking about you; stay strong, things will improve!

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I donโ€™t want to be angry.

I am familiar with the cycle, too. Get also confused about who to trust and then end up trusting the worst possible people.. (in every way - not only personal relationships, but also professional).

Wonder if you experienced any abuse in childhood and this is still not resolved, or had a toxic family. These things tend to affect our ability to trust and to judge people correctly.

But it is possible to resolve! There are many therapists on youtube, for example, who talk about these issues if you would like to look. If you can afford one for yourself, it might be a good investment also.

All the best, hope things will improve and you will experience relationships with unconditional love and trust.

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Question 4...

smiley wrote:

I actually have a husband and two teenage boys who can help. They just have different priorites from me. They don't care if the house is a mess and falling apart. I'm the only one who is bothered by it. If I ask, and if they feel like it, they will help. They just never, ever, ever think of doing anything on their own.

My 18 yo daughter is a pretty spoilt princess, and doesnt help in any way either, but when i suffered with severe depression and could not get up from bed, and there were no longer clean plates, she did wash up..

Maybe you just sit and 'enjoy' your backache or headaches, and once they dont have clean football shirts, they will wash.. if there are no plates or food, they'll either clean or get a takeaway.. Hm? ;)

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