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A Nanny From Hell..

PS: Found this today on fb (don't agree with everything)

https://scontent.flhr1-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9...

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A Nanny From Hell..

:)) Thanks, Sherlock.. wish it was that easy @ #7. -> I'm messed up, i can't even trust myself. It's a constant confusion.. Been through too much abuse - they have broken me completely!

(I liked that article under your 'Help me with:' - it is gone now! :( )

#1 Can't do that - need to trust God, not meself :/

#2 How do you know a person if you don't date them (if you already don't happen to know them)?

#3 I think I learned this lesson.. Took me ages.

#4 Ehm, I did not this time.. Made no difference.

#5 Never ever looked for someone to complete me.. Maybe to compete with me.. ;D ..and I am not a complete person.. Demons are taking over my mind and body most of the time. It is a constant battle..

#6 Did that only once - dated because i felt sorry for him, but not because i believed him to be an underdog.. (because i believed i messed up and did not want him to suffer because of me)

I hate dating.. and was so happy not having that option. Now i'm all broken and don't know what next.. need to reconnect to God to know what His will is for my life.

Thank you xx

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trying to be poetic here but i dont even know what i just wrote

I read also..

DocteurRalph wrote:

But I do have to say I'm glad someone is posting something. Maybe I should make a post about my crazy reality, that would start a firestorm that couldn't be put out with a tsunami.

And yeah, @DocteurRalph - we want that post, go on! ;D xx

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A Nanny From Hell..

An UPDATE (if anyone is interested):

My last day yesterday.. Mommy boss and daddy boss both away; i worked over 12 hours and left the kids with a relative (managed not to cry until i got to my car. The little one waving bye to me for the first and last time when i was putting him to bed.. :_( )

They left me a huge box of chocolates and a card with a gift voucher. Both older boys signed the card, although the younger one told me that he did not want to write anything as he hates me, but mum made him do it - he drew a gigantic heart - well, i've got a lot to learn from my nanny kids. (First time i saw their hand writing, wow! Been with them for over a year..)

(I presume) mummy boss wrote apart of thank yous that they will miss me a lot.. and hopes to keep in touch. Ehm, am I right thinking i should not?! ๐Ÿ˜„

I swear, may Papa help me, this was the LAST TIME this happened..! Gonna kill this Mya b*tch and gonna be the best nanny in my next job.. by Papa's grace and deliverance from all my demons and traumas.

So, who needs a nanny..?! O;)

http://www.callthenanny.co.uk/wp-content/upload...

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How do I convince my friend not to lie in her CV ?

DocteurRalph wrote:
OMG Mya seems to have a bigger ego than me... I'm not buying the whole everybody wants you thing until I get pictures by the way.

:D :D :D Docteur, in the past over 41 years I met only one guy who had a bigger ego than me.. ;)

And how would you see my magnetic personality from a picture?! ;D Why would you even presume it to be my looks that draws guys to me? Haven't i been shouting enough on here how FAT i am?! And i always was the ugliest girl in class and fattest, and that never left my brain..

So i had to come up with a different strategy.. all plain evil if you asked me. :(((

And, btw i never wrote EVERYBODY wants me.. Guys who i truly loved either did not even notice my existence, or didnt want to have anything to do with me.

Now just opened a huge box of chocolates which i got from my work as it was my last day today. I bet she gave it to me so i'd get even more fat..

Wonder what im gonna put on my next cv - succeeded not to seduce boss's husband heh ):)

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<< Change Ahead >>

Oh never heard of that; but glad you were able to stop playing games! Hope it gets better soon.

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A Nanny From Hell..

soco wrote:
And yes, praying.

THANK YOU, Soco xx

..i've read loads of books already on this topic; i will look into that one, too but doubt it will work.. :(

I remember what the guy asked me last Monday - Mya, why dont you believe that somebody can love you? And i was going to argue with him about it.. but i knew he was right - the root of my problem is that i dont believe that someone can love me.. :/

Not sure what the root is for other women..but hope and pray that they will find it and overcome it.

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How do I convince my friend not to lie in her CV ?

soco wrote:
Okay... here it goes. Starting the ball rolling:

Sherlock FOR PRESIDENT

Who's with me?

Ehm, I can't only for one selfish reason.. Leaders tend to fall for me! And I wish to be free from that on here.. ;)

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A Nanny From Hell..

Yes dearest @Sherlock, you are right.. However, what is the solution?!? :(((

Got a magic wand to wave? ;) if only it was that easy.. Im so messed up that dont realize a bad guy is bad until it's too late.. And sometimes i see the red flags, but still fall. It seems like a curse which i am unable to brake.. Will you say a prayer for me/us?! PLEASE! :)) xx

Ps: In the last at least three years i have noticed that all the good guys who i meet are hooked up with abusive/controlling women, HA!!!

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:))) yes, soco, of course.. always ready to make change!

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