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Need help writing a text.

I honestly don’t. He would be the worst boyfriend. We met up yesterday and then he told me once I drove to him he only had 15 minutes. I was very annoyed and am going to cool things off for a while.

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

aeolians.revenge wrote:
What.. your posts suggests different than your response.
Im confused. The post suggests you are a mess. Your latest response contradicts that.

I am happy with myself but I still feel sad all the time. It is the world the makes me feel hopeless and that I can do anything to change it. Just be I am accepting who I am now doesn’t make be regret everything I’ve done in the past or more so what was done to me. It’s hard for me to explain which is why it’s hard for me to figure out how to fix it

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

aeolians.revenge wrote:
I can offer you help but it wont be easy and you probably will resent me for it .
If your up for a transformation of your lifw for the positive and would be wiling to work hard and make major changes. Give me a shout

I think I am confident and happy with who I am (it took be a hard road to get to this point) but I think that situations around me or from my past haunt me. I’m open to any advice

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I need to get out more.

Lano wrote:

music=life wrote:
I like to give people complaints.

Yes, good brainstorming.

Airplane food is terrible. Whats up with that???

Lol 😂 I’m so dumb

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I need to get out more.

I like to give people complaints. Just the little things like ‘I like your shoes’ or saying happy Friday to people. I’m not great at making new friends as an adult but I’m good at small talk. Saying something nice is an easy way to strike up a conversation

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Need help writing a text.

Araz wrote:

music=life wrote:
@Araz I’m scared he might eventually want a relationship and I don’t want to hurt him

I see :( I would ask him. I would probably text him something along the lines of “Hey, I’m just trying to get a feel for what our situation is - I’m not in a place to be in a relationship but I enjoy spending time with you. How does that work for you?”

That kind of puts the ball in his court but also it lets him down gently if he is heading towards being in a relationship with you.

This is perfect

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Need help writing a text.

@Araz I’m scared he might eventually want a relationship and I don’t want to hurt him

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Need help writing a text.

Araz wrote:

music=life wrote:

verge wrote:
Sorry, I worded my response poorly, I meant to suggest that you figure out exactly what you want from him and tell him.

ahh good call

Yes! What exactly do you want, music=life? Do you want to break up soon?

I think that might be the best decision. It’s just been nice to have a person I can reach out to even if it’s for a hookup. I feel needed and I feel like I have someone.

I’ve been in bad relationships in the past so that is not something I want right now. If I end things I won’t seek out any type of friends with benefits with someone new. I am using this relationship as a way to just be around a person. I feel isolated where I am and as hard as I try it is not going to change until I get and new job and move back to the city.

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Need help writing a text.

verge wrote:
Sorry, I worded my response poorly, I meant to suggest that you figure out exactly what you want from him and tell him.

ahh good call

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Need help writing a text.

verge wrote:
His position looks pretty clear to me as an outsider. The question is what do you want? If you know what you want then you can make it happen. Trying to gauge where he is in his life, especially if he's kinda lost, is not going to point you in any meaningful direction. You have to face what you want and figure out if spending time with this guy, who most likely doesn't have a clue what he wants, is working for you.

That’s exactly it but if I just send him a text with what do you want it’s going to leave to confusion. I just don’t know how to word all that

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