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I would never maintain a relationship with someone who is married. I’ve been cheated on and would never do that.

The thing is that I don’t want to be serious with this guy. So I don’t want to ask if he wants a relationship bc if he says yes idk if that is what I am ready for. I really just want to know if he wants to continue things the way they are or end it sooner rather than later?

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Just let me ramble.

Baby steps.
1. You’re cats are beautiful and I have experience at animal shelter and if you wanted to give them up they will be adopted in a second
2. You love your cats and you shouldn’t give up something you love bc you are scared
3. Take your medication- starts slow (maybe do it every other day and build up from there) my meds made me nauseous for 2 weeks until I learned I need to eat before I take them- talk to your doctor. As for the one that makes you sleep ask for a lower dose
4. Don’t think about what will happen if you die. That fear will stop you from doing things that make life better.
And know we are all hear for you ❤️

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

Jebus-Zeus wrote:

Nevermind wrote:
Pet therapy. My pets help me.

pets are just slaves we imprison for our own benefit

I volunteer at an animal shelter and it is the highlight of my week. No matter what shitty situation they come from they are so willing to show you they love you

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I talk a lot about my dad.

I think it shows a lot of strength to forgive someone who’s hurt you and love them after. But I want to make sure that you don’t change for anyone but yourself. You need to love yourself unconditionally

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

Thanks everyone. Today my sister admitted herself in for psychiatric care due to her anxiety and depression. Me and my sister aren’t on good terms bc she kicked me out of our apartment a few months ago. I don’t know how I should react. I told her I am there for her (but it makes me mad that she isn’t there for me when I am going through the same thing). I feel discouraged

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

soco wrote:
Do you think the panic attacks happen because you have not worked through the trauma? If so that is where to start. You cannot suppress it away by not talking about it. If one on one face to face therapy is not doable, maybe try Dr.'s on Demand. You can talk with a licensed professional without actually meeting face to face. The cost is also extremely reasonable.

You’re 100% right. I haven’t worked through it. My past haunts me. And I know at some point I need to face it a work through it but I think it will get a lot worse (me talking about it) before it will get better. I am moving soon and I think once I am settled in I will search for a female therapist near my new place.

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

soco wrote:
I still think therapy is the best way to go. You just need to find the right one. Don't judge them all just because one barrel had one bad one in it. Perhaps try one that is of the opposite gender.
Don't forget too, you have lots of friends here that you can rely on though our hours vary.

I’m scared to try therapy again bc talking about my trauma gives me panic attacks. I want to go back and try therapy again but I am just not ready for that yet.

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

Thanks Smiley. I feel like I am trying to do things to make me feel better but it’s not working. I’ve been at this since 2016 with medication and therapy and I just want to give up. So in May I tried to change my outlook on like and learn to love myself- and I do. But I still feel sad

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I don’t know what to do anymore.

smiley wrote:
Depression is hard.

Do you spend any time with friends?

I had a suicidal episode in May and I pushed all my friends away. Now I move away from them and have had trouble making new ones

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Meet my crazy kitten, Tyr!

😍😍😍 I want to foster a kitten or a pup some time soon!

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