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TRIGGER (since my friend said i shud use trigger warnings n whatever..)

๐Ÿ˜ข thank u

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Some of my friends I grew up with ended up being party goers on the weekends and that sort of thing.

I dont get to have fun. Im severely disabled so most of my money goes on trying to get well and paying for carers.

Before i got severely unwell long term, I used to spend maybe ยฃ30 on drinks for a night out. Didnt go out often. Id come back with change. But have to pay to get in places with it too.

No need to go stupid spending ยฃ70+ like some people.

Healthy people spend money on making themselves sick.

Sick people spend money on trying to get well.

Before i got sick i was the same. But don't go nuts with it. Without ur health u hav nothing.

And remember you dont need to do things just because other people are doing it. And drinking every single weekend it silly if u ask me, people end up alcoholics and its not a fun road to go down.

Once when id been drinking i threw up and decided i wanted some water and had had enough. A friends boyfriend started to call me a *****pussy and told me to keep drinking and to drink myself sober. So i went "meow!" And drank my water.

And dont go down the drugs route. There is so much out there and not hard to find.

So many people think a good time time is getting mortal and rolling around the pavement after sniffing coke or whatever and waking up next morning in a bush or a random person's bed.

Heres some tips. Always go with someone u trust and stick together... if u r a girl then go to the toilets together and u can even share same toilet cubicle for a wee wee!!! Lol

Hold tight to ur friends hand whilst u walk thru a night club. Its so easy to get split up and its hard to find people again.

Never ever leave a drink unattended. Never put a down ur back on a drink. Best way is to get a bottle and hold ur thumb over it then no one can pop a date ****rape drug in when ur not looking.

If someone wants to buy u a drink then go with him to the bar and pick a bottle and take the bottle straight from the bar person. Not for the guy. If a guy brings u a drink then just say no thanks. Unless u know them well and trust them.

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TRIGGER (since my friend said i shud use trigger warnings n whatever..)

And the orange tint around teeth and scrapping the white lines dont make them fade and gum receding where there may be a hole.

Fantastic that going to a dentist is impossible n theres little dickhead can do on a home visit except tell me to brush my teeth even though i don't have help i need.

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Thanks @BA1

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Anyone got thoughts on the following:

@Aria

Libtard, scare mongerer, snowflake, conspiracy theorist, remoaners.. all words that get on my nerves... they're so silly and immature.

If we addressed this with a mod do u think it would make people feel differently?

N if people reported unkind words n attitudes for mod to deal with?

Im that kind of person who doesnt mind others views, if this makes u feel better? I have a friend who was brought up jewish, a friend who is jehovahs witness, other christian types, some who are very spiritual with angels and one who is a pagan as well as atheists and those who sit on the fence. It doesnt stop us being friends though.

I hope i dont seem pushy. I get scared incase i come across wrong sometimes. But i think everyone should feel comfortable and i think bullying is wrong.

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If you block someone on facebook and messenger do all the conversations get blocked also

I dunno. Do y have a gud friend on fb n pm who can help u test it out? If u got mobile numbers then u can keep in touch whilst you both test it out

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Anyone got thoughts on the following:

@Aria i used to feel the same. I rarely ever used to talk cos i got bullied so much. Perhaps partly cos i think i may have aspergers too to some degree.

But as time has gone by i have learnt to talk and learnt of my self worth.

Sometimes i have views that are the minority too but im stubborn. I dont like to feel like others have power or control over me, like they used to, so i often state my views regardless.

And when people are critical i see it as a challenge to remain true to myself. I see it as a challenge to not allow others to control my emotions or my actions. And to not allow others to mute me or decide how i live my life.

When my emotions are affected i try to come back when they are cleared. I try hard to use my words to express myself rather than emotion. I try hard to stay in control of who i am. Because only i can decide who i am. Others cant decide who i am anymore.

When my cognition is especially bad though i sometimes forget to come back later but i am getting better at it. Sometimes people can be very cruel but i try to be kind back even when i am angry at them, and the responses i get back are surprising sometimes.

Sometimes it feels unnatural to be nice to others who are unkind to me, but sometimes it seems thats all they needed - kindness. Then sometimes they are more respectful when they talk to me.

When someone is cruel i sometimes say, some express themselves with emotions and belittlement like that because they do not have the language skills to express themselves otherwise. I dont need to do that because i can use my words to express my self.

I am blunt with people. Why are you talking to me in such a nasty way when i have not done so to you?

Or why are you being nasty because i have different views?
Those with intelligence acknowledge that they have much to learn and are open minded to views of others, so why not you?

Or i respect that u have different views. But you do noy respect mine. Do u not think there is enough hatred and intolerance in this world already?

And then i see what responses i get and go from there. It doesnt always work out but im getting better at it. But i kinda understand it's not worth having a battle sometimes when life has too many of them for us already! Sometimes we have to pick our battles.

Im sorry Aria, im rambling! im virtually bedridden and i dont get visitors, i have too much time on my hands LOL sort of..

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This site is getting popular again.

<3 ^_^ yey!

...y know... i think i must freak some people out with my questions sometimes.

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N thank u

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Anyone got thoughts on the following:

What's HBO @Yorick ?

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