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Everyone is extremely grateful for this 'resurrection' as it were.

are we able to set up like a justgiving page to do it through? or possibly even a donation button on the site? we would then be able to continue raising money to keep the site going over time :) but i definitely dont mind chipping in a fiver to keep the site going

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What is thee time?

there are other way to build up on google, how busy the site is and how oftens theres updates directly relevent and im sure google uses some kind of tagging thing too to find relevent sites. dont think advertising will be needed as it wasnt on the old help..though that was a long time ago.

does anyone know of any large website where someone could anonamously post about the new site and hopefully draw people in?
though i think the best way is ratings on google as thats how most people find websites

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Okay --- who is still missing?

i remember tramps, pheegee, i think mills....wonder what happened to all these people. shame we cant just email them all

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Okay Jebus, just for you, I came back.

i also preferred it when i had a psychologist - i hope to be as helpful as she was one day!

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Okay Jebus, just for you, I came back.

Rockster160 wrote:

ProffVampy wrote:
yeh i probably was, i was only here for a couple of years...on an off as the school found out i used this site and blocked it so i could only use it when i was at home/different internet.

I remember that!

annoyingly this site was much more helpful tha the counsellors i was sent to...they tried to get me to explain which rocks (out of a bowl of rocks) represented the different parts of my personality...even now studying psychology i have not yet come across that technique and still think its a load of BS

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Ambereyes wrote:

ProffVampy wrote:
Thank you amber, i know and this is why i tought it right to raise it with people and get some opinions. im sure mine will be slightly biased as always with these situations but i try not to be. good adivice though, but i know ive gone against that many times and very much got burned which i suppose is another reason im able to see it happening this time

I've been there too, which is why I've found it such good advice. I was burnt by so many different people, and burned myself out trying to help people who wouldn't help themselves that learning I need to put myself first was a massive thing. Honestly from the way you are talking I'm sure in your heart of hearts and head of heads you know what you think you should do, we're all here to support you.

i do know but i also dont want to be the reaosn for him falling without any kind of cushion which is why i think ill wait til he moves out in a couple of weeks. and if he doesnt hes getting kicked out as i cant afford to have him here and once hes been paid he can afford to go get his own place

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Okay Jebus, just for you, I came back.

yeh i probably was, i was only here for a couple of years...on an off as the school found out i used this site and blocked it so i could only use it when i was at home/different internet. then the site broke down and helptogo didnt last for me but now im back and here from the start! older and also wiser i hope ^.^ though still young enough to need help with life - 20s are a weird time where you feel young but are also expected to adult fully...

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Okay --- who is still missing?

Evansent wrote:
Manthy is Aishas Daughter.
I sent Manthy a request as well as Aisha yesterday.

huzzah! hopefully they will pop up soon :) ive spent more time on here talking to people than i have on facebook in the past few days xD its great to reconnect with so many people!

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Is there anyway to recover posts from the past?

i found 2 and then found my account though i wasnt on there very long and it didnt link to the old help stuff :/ sad times....teenage me will no be relived afterall!

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Okay --- who is still missing?

apparently i had an account on the helptogo site too! ill list some of the names i had as friends there inacse ayone knows/remembers them!
Ignk,
sans,
sayitsso,
max,
manthy - i definitely remember manthy from this site! seeing the names is jogging my memory :)

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